I am a little confused is there pictures for the measurements? 3. I need the distance from the tip back to the backside of the (rim) crown of the head. You can use a ruler or straight vertical object and stand it in front of you like it was a wall, hold "HIM" straight out then measure from the ruler back to just behind the crown on top. Is that from the top to the bottom of the rim? does she want it measured on the side where a piercing would be? Thanks