We are off and on with the chastity play. We started experimenting with it when we first got married. I was 26 and she was 21. It's been a long time since we last played with it. Thanks to job changes, we missed our normal month or so that we usually have in the summer. Well, I've been wanting to do it lately, but for slightly different reasons than before. I really am liking the way things feel between us when it's been a while since I last climaxed. I don't normally wait very long. It's 1-2 times within a 24 hour period for me in general, but I've been beginning to enjoy going over a 24 hour wait period more often. So, anyway, yesterday it had been nearly 48 hours. I was really liking how much I wanted to talk with my wife, text her, etc. At night before bed, she came into the bedroom. We started chatting, and we were getting ready to be intimate. I told her how long it had been since I came, how I liked waiting for her, and that I wanted this sort of thing to continue. Her arousal level jumped through the roof at that. I got her off while she fidgeted around with me, and then she wanted to make me come too. I didn't object. Today after work, she came into the bedroom while I was checking emails. I'd already put on the device once I was home. She nestles beside me, and we talk for a while until it turns into something more. She reaches down and feels me. She looks at me wide-eyed and smiling. I thought she knew that I meant we'd start playing with the chastity device again. She didn't expect it, but she was fine with that idea. I clarified to her though that I really wanted to wait longer for her. This has ALWAYS been our issue with chastity play. She really likes seeing me come, so I almost never wait for more than a day. She gets the key and takes off the device. Very soon she's pulling me on top of her, and we go at it for a good while. I get off of her and make her come again, but this time with the entire focus on her clitoris. Now, here was the startling part for me. Almost every time we've been in such a scenario she starts messing around with me and soon makes me come. Today she just sits there with her one hand wrapped around my shaft (slowly running it up and down the length and pausing every now and then to squeeze), and the other hand on my balls rubbing them. Pointing at the chastity cage on the floor, she asks, "Do you think you can get that thing back on in a few minutes?" I say deliriously, "Sure." She let's go of my erection, pats it a few times, and says, "Good, I want to see the key in at least 2 minutes." No way that's going down so soon, but I did get it to her eventually. She said that tomorrow when she got home we'd have some time with each other. I don't know if she means I'll get off or not. I know I'll start going crazy in another day or so, but I would REALLY like to try that out a bit. I told her as much today. I'm hoping she'll see what it can do for us, and then she'll take the lead. At least, that's what I think I am hoping for.