Marriage and No Penetration

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    Question for married couples!

    Do any of you all have a relationship where the husband is not allowed to enter the wife at all? Basically, he is cut off from penetration and in chastity?

    I am single and have not been married but this has always been a huge turnon for me. To be married but not allowed to have my own wife! I am bisexual so I think it that is part of my kink, but it is so intriguing to me!
     
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    Being bisexual has nothing to do with it. What does is your kinks and desires.

    I’m pansexual (I’m attracted sexually to all kinds of people). I’ve had some amazing PIV sex, but lately I prefer to give oral and receive anal. Anal via strapon or real really is enjoyable to me.

    So I’d just say, enjoy yourself. Don’t think too much. As you have relationships you’ll find they all are different so what you enjoy now will change some. It may or may not change many more times too.

    so hope that helps some.
     
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    Do you want a woman that doesn’t want anyone in her vagina or just not you? Plenty out there with no interest in any sort of sex.
     
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    Just not me! I would want her to be happy and have as much as she wanted
     
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    If you haven’t already, you may want to give David J. Ley’s Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them a read. It includes interviews with couples, historical data on cuckolding, and statistics but didn’t come across as dry to me.

    I don’t recall how many of the marriages featured were completely a-coital, but I expect that a few were.
     
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    Plenty of people like you around here.
     
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    If she is happy without piv, you or anyone, would that still work for you? Or do you want cuckold feeling?
     
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    Totally her choice for sure! I just would want her to be happy either way :)
     
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    Might be easier to find than you think. good luck
     
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    I hope so for sure!
     
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    Yes, my wife denies me any PIV. She has lovers for her sexual needs. So I am cuckolded and kept in chastity. So yes, it is very hot to want her so badly and never have her. This just increases my lust and desire for her while also bringing my submission to a whole new level.
     
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    Sounds like an awesome experience!
     
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    My WIFE/KEYHOLDER after our two kids were born our sex life went to once if really lucky twice a year for PIV. Since chastity (she has been my KEYHOLDER for 7 weeks now.) We have had oral sex twice which has been hotter than any PIC sex I have ever had honestly hope that is the only way we do it from know on. Men put to much stock in PIV because it is for them not there love.
     
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    I'm not allowed any type of sexual pleasure. My wife prefers oral and different toys. She never unlocks me ,total denial. She loves that I'm locked up and begging her for some kind of release. The answer is always no, or maybe tomorrow. Which never happens.
     
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    I'm married e not enter in my wife since 2006 :)
     
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    For me it is the versus - my wife only allows (rarely) penetration. No touch, no oral, she is not even allowing me to see her nacked. This is the worst as her vagina is wide and she hardly feel my cock inside. Therefore it made me become a premature ejaculator. That is evil.
     
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    My husband struggles with erectile dysfunction due to trauma and nerve damage, so we've skipped the PIV sex for our entire marriage.

    And were more than fine, I'm very happy and so is he! There is so much more to sex than PIV , and as a dominatrix it does feel more dominant to not allow PIV (at least from my perspective).
    If I want the sensation of PIV I will let him use a toy on me, but honestly even if there were no such toys we could be creative enough in bed without them.
     
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    My husband struggles with erectile dysfunction due to trauma and nerve damage, so we've skipped the PIV sex for our entire marriage.

    And were more than fine, I'm very happy and so is he! There is so much more to sex than PIV , and as a dominatrix it does feel more dominant to not allow PIV (at least from my perspective).
    If I want the sensation of PIV I will let him use a toy on me, but honestly even if there were no such toys we could be creative enough in bed without them.
     
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    same here, I am permitted release via anal stimulation only, no penile contact.
     
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    That is really hot!
     
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    I honestly can't remember the last time I had PIV sex. It's been years. Part of that is my waning ability to stay hard, part of it is that PIV is just not that pleasurable for her. Sex for my Wife and I is now centered on oral and vibrator for her, anal penetration for me. Occasionally she gives me oral (with a snowball finish) or more often I am forced to cum in my cage with a vibrator. As Mrs. Lilith said, there is SO much more to sex than PIV. We are quite happy that we have such an awesome sex life!
     
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    I am not allowed in my wife's vagina. In our case, she feels that it's simply inappropriate for a chaste man to be given that privilege. I am physically capable--although probably no longer the best at it with my age and endowment--and she finds it perfectly enjoyable. She just feels a fundamental "wrongness" to letting a chaste man inside of her.

    I do not believe she cuckolds me, however.
     
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    I think that is interesting and correct psychology. If you are a "chaste" man you should be a chaste man! I agree with her
     
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    I have been married for 24 years, in the last 10 years we have had PIV once. I have now been in chastity for the last 8 months, with lock up time between orgasms increasing each time. The last one was 78 days. I am tied and blindfolded and my wife gives me a hand job. Then I am locked back up. I am not teased or milked at all between orgasms.
    I don't envisage ever being alowed PIV again. I am not alowed to ask for release or discuss my chastity that is the number one rule, so I have no way of knowing if or when I will be alowed an orgasm again.
    We have ordered a Lori 16# with retainer ring which will be here mid September, if this fits well, I am not sure my wife will bother to release me very often if at all.
     
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    Do you "pleasure" your wife with your tongue, a vibrator or strap on? I enjoy these activities so much I wouldn't mind if I was never allowed inside her again!
     
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