It often seems that people that like Chastity also have a interest for BDSM and all those kinky stuff? What do your say and wdo you, yourself like BDSM, whips, blindfolds, bondage etc etc ? Myself i love it all!
I'm not among that group, but there are many like yourself on here. There is a member named Vinny who has tons of experience with BDSM and all kinds of kinks. Might be a good person to talk to.
I looove bondage and blindfolds, but some of the rest too! I think it depends on the person, but i do love some things of it!
I've been into BDSM for about 30 years, well before the FLR and chastity, but I think it has been a progressive journey. My BDSM interests, mostly by pro dommes, have gone from being restrained, stimulated and teased to orgasm to more edging and then my feminine side was awakened at a particular BDSM session and that has set off another whole interest. Then, once Mistress learned of my feminine side as well as my BDSM experiences, She took control and moved me toward the FLR and now, BDSM does not cross my mind at all. The journey has been wonderful and I look forward each day to new and exciting experiences.
I have been into BDSM for 47 years with two girlfriends and my wife. Oddly enough, we do not incorporate much into our Chastity. Our girlfriend was the one into dominating me but my wife sometimes participated if it did not involve hurting me. The only elements we incorporate into our chastity play are the very occasionally caning/paddling and very often nipple torture. I am too old to take the punishment I used to. I do not heal well anymore. We basically are into teasing and denial.
Very much into BDSM. Just see tease and denial as one of those kinks. For some people, tease and denial may not be involved with any BDSM - the world would be boring if we were all the same!
BDSM is a huge grouping of kinks. That said growing up I remember seeing pics of Bettie Paige and thinking how pretty she. Even as a little kid there was something about the beauty of the pics and her that I knew was special. I'm not sure how that got me interested, but I knew the beauty and the taboo had something to do with it. I guess it may explain my love of the unusual and different as I'm always looking to try new and different things as long as they aren't unsafe, and cross my hard limits of illegal, blood and needles. To be honest, I guess that's why after over 20 years in the BDSM lifestyle I struggle to find things that now excite me. I no longer get the rush as I can't find many new and exciting things and most of the things I haven't done I have no interest in doing. I guess it's why I'd love to find someone who could help me push through this. Someone who I connect with in a special way and who will push me to places I haven't been. That said, I still love the beauty of leather, beautiful sharbari rope work, toys, etc so while I don't get the rush I still appreciate the creativity of what people do.
I really loved bondagecafe's videos, quite some time ago, BTW I really enjoy light bondage, nothing extreme, but seeing a wonderful girl struggling to get free is really exciting!
To be blindfolded and tied up to me is part of being a servant, when I'm in bondage I'm totally at my Mistresses mercy. This was always and still is a huge stimulated for me. To not know and not have any control over what will happen. Chastity is also part of this, I have no idea when I'll have an Orgasm or how. Chastity is bondage you can wear 24/7
I love BDSM! I have a very submissive mindset and every type of dominance excite me. Chastity is a part of that. Chastity takes away my ability to decide over myself which is very very exciting
some i like and some i don't like. i has seen a lot in the dungon and some men am ever so brave to have it done i think. sometimes when i don't do things rigt i has to fetch my paddle and I like having to get it and then i'm paddled and that's ok to start but not after a bit.
I enjoy the impact play side of BDSM, the giving of side of it. I have been involved in other areas at club and in the dungeon but the impact play is definitely my favourite.
My BDSM side has always been all about the passion I feel for everything women must endure in order to look good. Whether it be having to wear a tight girdle or corset, having to endure tight hot pantyhose, or having to spend time wearing (oor sleeping in) uncomfortable hair curlers or having to sit under a hot hairdryer in order to have beautiful hair. This fetish translates as a trigger for me. The bdsm my wife employes mostly comes under those thoughts of empathy on my part. She knows my triggers and uses these triggers to guarantee my sexual performance. She herself told me how much she hated to sleep with rollers during high school years. We fit together like a key and lock, me being the key.
The spice, the thrill of bondage and being helpless to hang on for the ride...the frustration and excitement of denial in its many forms, well beyond mere chastity devices... ;-)
Oh yes! Denial of anything, be it comfort, sexual relief, or even something as simple as a dish of ice cream by the one you love is the spice of life if it is done within the dance of sexuality.
It was actually the BDSM part that got me into liking the thought of chastity. I don't remember how it happened, but I do know since the age of four I've enjoyed being tied up. I at one point told one of my parents that my wife in the future is going to tie me up (not sure I completely understood everything then. Eek!) Around the age of 11 I discovered belts were great for bondage and spent a few summer nights tying myself up, although I didn't understand why I did it. I just liked it at the time. If you must know, I'm currently debating about tying myself up for the night again. tl;dr: I like bondage and BDSM. I don't recognize you, so if you're new: welcome to the Mansion! If you're not new, shame on me for not welcoming you before.
I personally love the whips and chains, My Goddess has 2 whips, and we have restrains under our bed, hand cuffs, and a few other BDSM items but we don't use them nearly enough
To be honest, except for a brief curious phase after reading "the claiming of sleeping beauty"(very hot by the way), the whole bdsm thing was lost on me. But then again, I hadn't had anyone doing it to me either. My kh initiated discipline into chastity and strangely enough, I started to enjoy it because she enjoyed it so much. Weird how I can be excited over someone else's excitement.
When you are dedicated to someone I think it's easy that be enthralled with their desires and pleasure. I know I experience it each time my wife has an orgasm, or tells me something she likes