Mandatory chastity

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by borbulls1961, Jan 10, 2021.

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Male Chastity should be mandatory

Poll closed Jan 17, 2021.
  1. When a man marries

    70 vote(s)
    55.1%
  2. When a boy turns 18

    29 vote(s)
    22.8%
  3. When a boy has his first ejaculation

    40 vote(s)
    31.5%
  4. During separation proceedings prior to divorce

    15 vote(s)
    11.8%
  5. After divorce

    8 vote(s)
    6.3%
  6. Never: cocks are free spirits

    12 vote(s)
    9.4%
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    The ‘when consenting adults agree’ option seems to be missing
     
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    Fascinating poll. While we are hardly a random sample of society, it's nevertheless interesting how strongly mandatory chastity is favored. 90% are banana republic voter fraud (USA?) numbers. Such an overwhelming majority.

    Also stunning, but agreeable to me, is that nearly a third favor mandatory chastity upon first ejaculation. If we tie chastity to the physical development--rather than societal milestones such as marriage--this makes the most sense.

    I first ejaculated around the age of 12. So applying my own vote to me, I can see how this would have incredibly changed my life. Words can't even begin to describe how differently I'd have turned out. Dare I say, I'd have been a much better person......for a MUCH longer time.

    I humbly ask that the OP start a new poll. (because I can't hijack his popular post) For those that have sons, when/if would you impose chastity onto him?
     
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    I get 137.9%
     
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    90 and 10 listed here do not equal the adding of individual column. I retract my 90+10
     
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    It will not add to 100% because it is a mutliple option poll where you can vote anything you want and thats why if you add you get over 100%, if anyone casts two votes instead of 1 it will no add anymore to 100%, it will be more, how much more depends on the total votes

    Dont worry much, you dont need to know everything, thats the good part of a community, someone else could know and explain why, it is not as evident as it should. I hope you understand now what happened
     
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    Wow you are a whizz Juan
    Interpreting multiple response polling is not straight forward and you ve explained it brilliantly.
    Love your avatar. :)
     
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    I hate to "bust your bubble Doczilla but there are no metals that are "indestructible". I have worked in metal fabrication and welding most of my life. I have worked with your common everyday mild steel, hardened steel, stainless steel, aluminum, magnesium, and titanium. Everyone of them are susceptible to some sort of cutting. Without it there would be no way of forming, cutting, shaping, bending ect. Now there possibly could be some exotic metal that I am unaware that could possibly be cast, (poured) into a form and minimize either flame or friction but every metal that I am aware of can be plasma cut. ( This would not be anyone's first choice) It uses an electric arc to start the melting process then a compressed gas to blow out the molten metal) It would be tricky but possible.BTW I am not a metallurgist and don't know all of the "exotic metals that are out there. I'm just using my working knowledge of being around many different types of metals over the years.

    I know this is sort of off topic, I just wanted tp put this out there.

    I am not of the belief that it should be a blanket coverage for a divorce! What if the woman is the cheater? What if the woman spends every dollar that is earned on clothes, shoes and stuff she doesn't really need and the family suffers because they can't pay their bills? What if she is a sorry POS that is a stay at home mom and Dad has to come home after working all night to a filthy house and screaming baby because the baby is in a wet shitty diaper where the sorry POS was too lazy to get off the couch to do anything about it? Then Dad has to change the baby tend to the diaper rash, clean the house and clean the dishes from the day before and cook dinner. Only to be repeated.????
    What then!? Is the man supposed to be the one put in chastity for doing all he could do?? I THINK NOT!

    If chastity is not mutual then it shouldn't happen!! ( except possibly in the case of sex offenders)

    I apologize in advance for the rant but this just hit too close to home from an abused male spouse!
     
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    WOW!
     
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    Yeah it was one of the best/worst marriages I have been in. The woman was insatiable in bed, or anywhere else for that matter. THAT is the ONLY reason I stuck it out for 5 years. I only got physical with her one time although she had slapped me several times. It all came to a boiling point for me one night when we had some friends over for a very mild party get together. My cousin said he had some smoke. (Her Mother was there at the time) I told him go for it. The three guys all had a hit and asked if she or her mother wanted a hit. She then got up and summoned me to the bathroom where she started telling me how rude it was to do that in front of her mother in "MY HOUSE" all while pointing her finger in my face and poking me in my chest. I finally BROKE! I grabbed her by the neck pushed her against the bathroom door and lifted her off the floor. In her last desperate attempt to get free and breath she was able to land a pretty good blow to my left eye. Stunning me a bit and turning her loose. (Thank God!!!!) I had so much rage, contempt, having all I could take the dam broke and it was as if I was having an outer body experience. She ran out the front door got in the car and left. It was awful!! It took me a while to cool down, especially feeling the swelling and tell tale signs It was going to be a black eye. (got into a lot of fights in my younger days so I knew it was coming) Looking back I have never been so happy to have had a black eye! I am sure I would have probably killed her. We filed for divorce shortly there after. Even at the divorce hearing. just before she begged me not to go through with it. I said no way was I backing out now to go back to that.
     
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    I second the concept of no device being indestructible. But there is the agony of destroying a device that one has spent $100s on to begin with.

    In regards to sex offenders, no device is irremovable when someone is extremely desperate. Bolt cutters and even chainsaws will suffice. I think the subculture is the best compromise. Think of it as being something that 2% at most may support. Getting this level of cooperation to 55% will be impossible unless you want 4 billion voters.

    I would certainly be interested in seeing a movie where chastity is the norm for guys. But I have never heard of a single film where someone wears a chastity device.
     
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    I so agree! I first got into the concept of male chastity due to porn, but now it it is such bad acting and scripted. Which makes it so unbelievable. I have seen adverts for FemDom sights where the Domme is selling their own "real" scenes. I have just never wanted to spend the money to possibly see the same thing. Not to mention to have my email sent to God knows how many other like minded sites.....

    Would love to see a real couple like Mr and @MrS. BR_Staiph do a day to day life of a real D/s relationship
     
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    I was told there would be no math. ;)
     
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    Good explanation. The point of poll was opinions and thoughts. It shows that. Thanks
     
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    Reason for chastity today means different things to all. Couples on whatever level should be in agreement for its use to succeed. The poll is a view of hypothetical. Opinions vary and we all have different ones. Respect is a real key to human existence.
     
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    Sex offenders, now THERE's an idea!
     
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    Have different solutions for those individuals.
     
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    You REALLY want to be using this kind of heavy duty cutting tool to cut a cock cage off? I would say that would be permanent for all intents and purposes. Any cage that would also result in chopping the caged boy off too or barbecueing him to a crisp, is in practicality, indestructible.
     
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    Why not as soon as engaged? It seems that is commitment enough to enforce.
     
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    Interesting poll, but, IMO, mandatory chastity is more of an erotic fiction thing.
     
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    ROFLMAO!!!!:)
     
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    Mandatory Male Chasity Enforcement.

    1) A Male must wear a Chasity Device at all times starting at puberty and/or the boy has his first ejaculation. Or upon entering engagement to marry. No later than 18 years of age, no earlier than age 11.

    2) All Married men must have Chasity Device on at all times.

    3) In a divorce, the ex wife gets to keep the key and decide if and with whom the ex husband can have intercourse with.

    4) A 2nd wife will not be able to consummate without the Ex wife's approval.

    5) Enforced chastity for male sex offenders, it will be riveted on. Non-removable. Stainless steel device.
     
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    Interesting
     
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    As a personal fantasy for me all the guys should wear a cage once they start dating, would improve their relationship and only if they have a small dick.

    My GF started to play more seriously in his SPH game and I’m starting to think that all small dick should be in a cage no matter what.
     
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    Sorry about your abuse first off. Second if your dumb enough to put a plasma cutter near your junk, go right ahead.
     
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    Or something like this??? LOL - just ideas.

    Mandatory Male Chasity Enforcement.

    1) A Male must wear a Chasity Device at all times starting at puberty
    and/or the boy has his first ejaculation. Or upon entering engagement to marry. No later than 18 years of age, no earlier than age 11.

    2) All Married men must have Chasity Device on at all times.

    3) In a divorce, the ex wife gets to keep the key and decide if and with whom the ex husband can get off with.

    4) A 2nd wife will not be able to consummate without the Ex wife's
    approval.

    5) Enforced chastity for male sex offenders, it will be riveted on. Stainless steel device.

    6) Keyholder will be the child's legal mother, and regardless of
    relationship status the child, upon reaching their 19 year old birthday,
    the key can transferred to a wife from the mother. Key transfer is
    required to another female, never can the male be in possession of the key to his device. Any male in custody of the State or Federal Courts, the key becomes the property of the correction department. The Female may upon the males release, petition the court for possession of the key, otherwise the State has control over the key.

    7) Enforcement, any male found not to be locked will be guilty of a Class Felony, Sex offense and will be fitted with a permanent device, it will be riveted shut and never removed. The offender will be on the Sex Offender Registry as well.

    8) Keys must be registered at the county courthouse, in the county the male resides in. It must show the males information, and the former keyholders, and the current keyholder. Failure to register is a Sex Offense and will be subject to the Sex Offender Registry as well.

    9) Any female may file with the Court, to take custody of a Key and granted Keyholder status that can prove she has standing to do so.
    Any male may be ordered in such case to abide by the Court's order.

    I am sure - irresponsible males over time would become less of an issue and women would feel more secure creating safe and healthy sexual relationships over time too. They would not be pressured to perform or allow access, except on their terms.
     
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