Male virgins?

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    I think this is a fantasy of mine....but no longer achievable as my virginity was taken way back, if only I knew then what I do now
     
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    Gee LilPeePeeBoy,

    Too bad You feel that way. Unfortunately, i wasn't lucky enough to be in the same situation You're in, so it never applied to me. But it would be a shame if You didn't take advantage of the wonderful opportunity You have before You. It's indeed so special how You Two have this wonderful thing between You Two, that You both saved Yourselves for marriage. So indeed, She should look forward to losing Her virginity on Her wedding night. However, wouldn't it be wonderful if it wasn't You who She lost Her virginity to? And to be fair, You too should lose Your virginity on Your wedding night, too. But again, not to Her. Rather, at the knees of Her Lover!
     
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    A 28yo virgin must be quite rare outside of monasteries(and maybe even inside)but if you've thrown away the keys how will you find a key holder?
     
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    Why not look for a gf who finds your virginity an asset and then let her decide your fate.
     
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    I guess it would, rita are you in search of virgin sub 20y?
     
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    I posted on the first page back in 2012. I just wanted to state that three years later I'm still a virgin.
     
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    Sorry, tempting though a virgin sub is, I don't have any spare time to take on another sub.
    Rita
     
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    paulp123 Christian Chaste Virgin

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    Hi I'm a male virgin in self imposed chastity. I think it is important to keep my virginity for my future wife.
     
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    I had a 'normal' sexual relationship with my Wife of 25 years until October last year. It was normal in that we enjoyed sex, earlier in our relationship we had lots of sex, and as the years went by had less and less. We still very much loved each other but somehow it just wasn't as important. My Wife reached her 50s and her need for penetrative sex waned almost altogether.

    And then, chastity.

    Wow. We now have more sex than ever! Hardly any of it penetrative though. And I love it.

    Do I wish I was a virgin? No, not at all. I am glad I managed to do my part to bring my children into the world, small as it was. I know what I am missing, making being kept chaste much more real.

    That said I have enjoyed a lot of the posts I have read here. I find the men who find being controlled to the point of being kept a virgin the ones I can relate to. The men who feel inadequate, not worthy of having sex with a woman I find harder to understand. I am not religious so the idea of staying a virgin based on that the hardest to understand. Each to their own though, I'm not going to try and tell anyone how to live.
     
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    @paulp123 i thinks it nice that you am keeping youself for a Lady.
     
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    I, too, am a virgin. Although currently not in chastity, I have had experience with it and hope to again if it were to please my future Superior. I am not into locking myself, only for the desire of a Superior. In fact, I really love orgasms and I would probably like the feeling of sex too. But I like it not being about me.

    As for the purity, I retained my penetrative virginity as a gift as I know someone may appreciate it, as this post seems to support. I have had vanilla sex opportunities many times but I turned them down.

    I would be grateful for and prefer a sex life of kneeling and orally servicing if allowed and behaved enough to earn the privilege, and/or being bent over. That, I am not new to any more.
     
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    26 year old virgin here. a little over three years ago, I discovered chastity play. Being curious, I held back from orgasm for a few days. The frustration, the feeling of being pent up... I wanted more. I went and bought a holy trainer, and the rest is history.

    These days, I lock myself up through emlalock, usually with a holder. I figure, if I haven't found someone who wants to play with my little friend, there's no reason I should be playing with him all that much, either. There are other ways to enjoy yourself, after all.
     
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    lol me too. 'virgin high five'
     
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    24 year old virgin here. Not by choice mind you just never had the opportunity to loose it lol.

    I don't paticukary want to remain a virgin for life, but if that's what someone in serving decides for me then I'm more than happy to oblige.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    Best attitude IMO. Have the decision (either way) made for by your KH who will can get what she wants regardless.
     
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    That would be a scary answer to receive, depending on the KH. But still, either way, it would be nice to know of an absolute. :)
     
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    Sine Die: I resemble much of your description. I too have not met the right lady, or maybe several passed through my life and I shied away from a fear of commitment. I have enjoyed many aspects of my life. I am here on the CM site because I want to avoid the tendency to pleasure myself. A chastity device can hopefully help with that.
     
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    Sorry for the old thread bump. I first posted in this thread in 2012 at age 21 stating I was a virgin. I am happy to follow up in 2020 at 29 to say that I am still a virgin. I did have a bj/hj, but no piv.

    I'm still not trying to have sex. I do want to find a keyholder though. I've masturbating way too much lately, and I need help with that.
     
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    It’s funny my madam and I were only talking about this a few weeks ago, madam took my virginity and is the only woman I have been with, she took my virginity about 6 months before we started on our bdsm lifestyle, and about 9 months before she discovered chastity. She was saying that if she had known about chastity before then she would have kept me a locked virgin!
     
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    I may have mentioned this a while back but I am a virgin when it comes to women. I have never penetrated a woman and I think I never will

    I am bi and have been with men but only as a receiver.
    I am 34 now and just desire to submit! Be that to a woman or man!
     
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    Interesting thread. I lost my virginity to an older woman but only after she had demonstrated that you don't have to penetrate to achieve satisfaction. As she said "There are many ways to make love"
     
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    Being a virgin at 34 would normally something to be embarassed about! But not here! Thats why this is a cool place!

    Lots of open minded people and supportive people :)
     
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    Hi, it is quite late for me to catch up with the thread:(, but I read it and was absolutely stunned:pray:.

    As many others here, I am in my mid 20s and still a virgin. I had several sexual contacts with woman, but it never went out well. So I started with solo chastity two years ago and I am really into it!

    I am not sure whether I'll be a virgin when I'll meet my future KH.... But the fantasy really gets me. I feel very excited, just thinking about it.
    I was also fascinated by the other posts and confessions in this thread! Being a virgin always felt like being a looser to me and I was happy to see all the others who confessed.

    That gave me power! Thx a lot
     
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    I’m not a virgin. But if we had known about chastity before, I would have happily submitted to it without sex.

    However.. Personally, I think having had sex and now being chaste makes it that much more frustrating (in a good way). To know just how good it feels, but to not be able experience it makes being locked up even more arousing and tantalizing.
     
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