It has been 9 days since I last touched my penis. That's not that long,is it? ...is it? It feels much longer. How did we get on this path? It helps to know my dear wife and I have always had a loving and open relationship. She has long had the freedom to do as she likes, and has had a collection of lovers and many sissies over the years. That would sound like a Cuck relationship and in retrospect has many of the same attributes. But how did male chastity get into the picture, you ask? My wife has long had an interest in dominating sissy boys, not something I could help her with. I look gawd awful in a skirt and high heals and have no strong interest in that particular fetish. At one point several years ago, she had a fair sized stable of these fellows that would come over while I was at work and be punished, humiliated and then used for sex. The punishment/humiliation thing always sounded appealing but makeup and dressing up didn't really get me there. Fast forward to this year and 4 months ago. In some way I'm not completely clear on now, this idea of confinement and punishment came to the surface. I found the idea very appealing it downright excited my dear lady. Then started the quest for the "Holy Grill", the wearable lockup device. It's been a frustrating and sometimes painful search, with a happy ending. We spent a fair amount, no make that an obscene amount, of money trying one device after another. They were too hard to use, too easy for my balls to escape from, too hard to wear and none of them offered a practical 24/7 solution. Why was this necessary? Why 24/7? After just a few failures and more than one day when I had to leave for work without some kind of cage on, my wife realized just how deeply this need to have me locked went. The first time we had a failure and I couldn't wear the thing to work, she found herself actually angry and deeply disappointed. The depth of this feeling surprised even her. Since I have this deep desire to please her sexually and emotionally, I shared her need. We talked about this surprising revelation and mutually understood this life style choice was resonating with both of us and a mutually desirable way. She has a long-held desire to be in control and dominate sexually and I have an equally deep desire to be dominated, humiliated and used sexually. Those pieces of our sexuality dovetailed perfectly. I want to make the point that going into this we had and still have a very strong and fulfilling relationship emotionally and mentally. We both were fortunate to marry out bset friend, that is each other. This journey we are on doesn't fill a void but instead satisfies a hunger. Our sexual and emotional wants and needs around this don't extend deeply into our overall relationship. But it is oh so much more than simple recreation. My Lady is very much in control and the consummate Key Holder. I am clear on my place in this and feel the reality of being at her mercy. It helps to know we did finally find that perfect device, a Mature Metals Jail Bird. As of today, I have been under constant lock and key for 9 days. The reality of 7/24 confinement came very real after a few days. I can't escape from my prison, I can't touch my own penis, my erections are easily contained and defeated and I have to sit to pee. Prior to this, we might make a week without some release for me, but we have moved beyond that. As of this morning I still have no clue if or when I will see some release. My wife allows as how I might get my hand job if I serve her well. Yesterday we laid down for a nap and she teased me up for quite some time. At the end of it, precum was running out of my cock and she was laughing and smearing it on my face and lips. Then she turned over and went to sleep. What sweet and humiliating torture that was. Maybe today? Maybe... More to follow, we look forward to sharing this experience with you. My Lady is a member as well, her screen name is "Pinkie". She would love to talk to other women here about their experiences and share hers. Men, you would need to be exceptional and non-guy like to get any attention from her. Cheers!