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    AM I MAD ?
    Hello I was thinking that if male chastity was in the main stream media , it would better for everyone.
    Take my case for example I would love to be in a male chastity device, but my wife thinks it is to strange and to bazar,
    And maybe if there were more articles in woman's magazines and other types of media would it come more
    main stream.
    For in my own case I feel a lot better when I cannot masturbate when ever I want, I have a lot more energy and the feeling for my wife grows more intents, but it is
    hard to do without a device and every time I bring up the subject it is not even entertained. One week I gave my wife, who I love very much there orgasms in one week{this is a first in twenty years} and I did not have any, I thought after that week I might get some where, but no joy.
    So my thinking is that to help people that are in my situation, if male chastity was in the public media and not just seen as a kinky sex toy it would be better for everyone and seen of a way to improve the bond of marriage .... your opinions and ideas please.... spider202
     
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    Actually, I hear what you are saying, but unfortunately, the media will sensationalize it, ala Jerry Springer. Male Chastity will always be considered 'kinky' and negativity will surround it. Just look how LGBT is still has slow acceptance, possibly because the media 'pushes' the agenda. I am not saying it is right, but in the current situation, it will be a tough sale for the population.
     
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    I think you right, if it become more mainstreame more womans will try it out. But i dont think this will happen if its sold by the media.
    But mayby if some one write a book ala 'fifty shades of gray' then it will have a big outcome. But then again how to sell a story of female dominations when most womans dreams is the oppesite.
    Hope you wife will try it out some day.
     
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    yeah so do i
     
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    Male chastity will become mainstream. It's a part of our future and a duty for all of us to spread the word.
    The more people know about, understand and accept it the more it will grow.
    I've already introduced many people to male chastity (including some members of this site)
    The world is going to be a better place for it in so many ways.
    Make sure you do your bit to spread the word.

    A xx
     
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    I am believe me.
     
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    Hello my name is Mira i hold the key to my bf dick. Sorry just can't see it. I think chastity is a privat buisness between lovers.. But see you point.
     
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    I wasn't suggesting impinging upon anyone's privacy.
    Condoms for example are mainstream but they don't impinge on ones privacy do they?
     
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    nice thought all males in chastity and submiiting to their women. I don't think I will see it in my lifetime Ms but you never know do you?
     
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    Hope springs eternal.
     
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    Stranger things have happened kickball

    And if the ladies here gather round the lead being given you just never know. :)

    Determined ladies get things done!!
     
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    maybe it could be done a bit like tagging is done to offenders released on bail.
     
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    With all males locked in chastity, the population explosion problem would be instantly solved.
     
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    Hello All.
    Wow...we can only hope magazines like Cosmopolitan and TV shows like the one on Showtime present it to the women out there...I think the majority of men would go quietly into the night and accept lockup readily if it were our lovers suggesting enforced chastity to us....it puts an interesting spin on the dynamic of the guy who never gets any from his significant other...as frustrating as it is, words cannot describe the feelings enforced chastity evokes...heck, here I lay in ed next to my blissfully snoring Wife/Mistress dressed in black thigh highs, metallic red fishnet boxers and a black spandex muscle shirt leaking profusely. I just completed a repaint of my Mistress' toes and a foot/calf massage...I feel amazing...
     
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    its a shame it cannot be done to all males at puberty and the key kept in a file until they are married and settled down into society making a worthwhile contribution to society and then at that point the wife or partner can apply for a copy of the key from the courts.
     
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    2inch chasity,its for my own good

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    good example,i think people dont like new things or change they dont know about.im that way ,i dislike my routines to be broke up or new rules / policeys at work,however after time i adjust . than its just like going in the gas station and buying condoms from some attendent you do or do not know
     
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    Comments like that are not going to help chastity to become more mainstream. Furthermore, what you're suggesting is completely non consensual! Chastity is a choice. For many couples it is a good choice, but it must remain a choice.

    (And the fact that I don't ever plan on getting married, I'd be completely screwed)
     
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    you are right,it is a choice.i think stroppy was just suggesting a fanticy, its always fun to think/imagine
     
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    Here's a wedding scene 30 years from now, 'Do you promise to love your Domme? Will you obey and wear the chastity belt of your Domme's choice? -- I will
     
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    well actually if it happened and you didnt get married you wouldn,t actually ever be completely screwed now would you? but as 2 inch said it never hurts to have a fantasy does it? we can all dream that cannot be controlled can it.
     
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    Completely screwed was probably the wrong choice of words, I was just looking for a politer version of "up sh*t creek without a paddle"
     
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    This is an interesting debate but please remember it's a discussion and you are all entitled to your own opinion. With something like chastity there is always a choice you do or you don't. Many couples go through it and they don't realise they are. Its just not having sex and if they respect each other no wanking either. A colleague of mine his wife had a baby 6 months ago and for ages he slept separate and when time alone for him and his wife to love each other was mentioned he said she always had the baby there and when jokingly he was asked if he now had strong wrists he said very sternly no.... So is this not chastity ... ...
     
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    We've been married 12 years.
    It is not I who demand chastity but my Wife who imposed because she wanted to completely controlling my sexuality and I wear a cage since the beginning of our marriage.
    I regret nothing quite the contrary.
     
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    Just one other thing (since I recently remembered this thread), that's a very hetronormative view
     
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