There are things we do in an FLR that some would argue is either self serving or something we would want to do. For example I like to cook and I'm better at it than my wife. She did more of the cooking before our FLR because that was our roles. Now that I do almost all of the cooking, one could argue I'm simply fulfilling my own desire to cook. So I'm curious what you all do that is 100% for her. While I have a handful I can think of, the hands down best example is that I make the bed every day. Not just throw a cover over it, but full blown hotel style make the bed. In my entire life I never made a bed unless I was putting freshly washed sheets on. Even then I was pretty sloppy at it and can count on one hand the number of times I did it during my marriage. I mean why make a bed when it's just going to get messy the next time you sleep in it. She loves the well made bed. Just walking into the room is a different experience for her. There is no chore I perform that is more expected than making the bed. The quickest way to bring down her wrath is to forget to make it. Every time I make that bed I feel submissive and I feel her power. What is your chore or service that fits this criteria?