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    Even if I am in chastity my wife wants to be satisfied by penetration by my penis. I use numbing cream and a condom, but when it is some time I am in chastity it is not so easy to retain from cuming. So I was thinking about a way for decreasing penis' sensitivity.
    My idea is numbing a little the penis with the cream. After the cream produces its effect I would clean it away and dry the penis. At this point, without feeling much I was thinking of rubbing it dry for some minutes, especially on most sensitive areas. This could be done every day and after some time (don't knowhow long) the skin would become thicker, making sensitivity decrease. I don't know if it would work and how big the effect could be. What do you think?
     
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    Probably not going to work. Skins regenerates and you probably won't be able to keep up with it. I recommend trying double condoms and a cock ring.
     
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    Thank you for your opinion. You know, I started thinking about this after reading that circumcised people (I am not) lose some sensitivity by just having the head touching the clothes, so I thought that even a stronger contact with friction could work in the same way or better.
     
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    well some men on here do a thing call banding and that make there willy feel nothing. I dont know how they do it but they have sayed on here somewhere how they do.
     
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    Yes I know, but banding can be extremely dangerous. I mean not that you die but you can damage the dorsal nerves irreversibly so that you'll never ever feel anything again, and you could also lose the possibility to get erect. I know they say it is reversible if you stay within certain limits, but risking like that is not what I'm looking for.
     
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    yes they did say you has to be careful bout doing it so dont do it if you dont want to.
     
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    Maybe some less risky banding could be done by making it at the base of the glans instead of at the base of penis, but I don't know if it is possible. In that case you wouldn't lose the complete sensitivity but onlt that of the head. In any case it is risky.
     
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    That is true. My personal experience was that I became more sensitive after being locked up. I was circumcised right after birth. About a month into being locked up I sloughed off a layer of skin on the head which made it VERY sensitive for a bit before getting used to the new normal.

    Everything is worth trying and your experience could be different.
     
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    My problem is that after handling my erection nearly every day since puberty, is that it's tougher than when it gets locked away for a while. When locked in my short cage, erection is impossible, and it 'turtles.' Over time, the outside layer(s) of skin do indeed slough-off, just like @G42G, above states. For me, it's especially noticeable between the glans and the shaft. (I too was circumcised a few days into my earthly existence.) I make it a point to clean that away at least weekly in the shower, or hot tub.

    The trouble is, when she does want me unlocked, she grabs it and yanks it up & down dry (like I used to) and it hurts, which isn't helpful in sustaining a woody. Lotion, please! So, the Aspercreme (something OTC with Lidocane) and a condom is likely the best bet for lasting longer. I find the threads on here where the woman enjoys having her man on a hair-trigger really hot, as like many men my age, I thought you had to pound away for 20-minutes (or more) to satisfy a woman in bed. A lot of my preconceived notions have vaporized over the past couple of years, since discovering male chastity!
     
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    Actually it was the guy that used to own the mansion "Jens was it?" he didnt wear a chastity device at all. he used banding to numb his cock so he couldn't cum. From memory the feeling does come back and he had to band himself every few months or so. I tried it once and it stayed numb for half a day or so...not really mistresses thing, although she likes to put a band on my nuts and watch me edge then writhe in pain when it gets cut off lol...the sting only lasts a few seconds tho, and for some reason cutting it off the cock wasn't nearly as bad of cutting it off your nuts.

    There is some detail on here somewhere, ahhh here it is and it was Jens

    https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...ck-banding-with-wife.33012/page-3#post-368136
     
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    I have tried Lidocaine for nubing since one month, with a condom, a thick one, you really feel nothing, maybe you don't put enought cream, mine is 3%
    I can garanty that you feel nothing at all, put on all, not only the glans but on all the dick, be generous.
    Why don't use a viagra if you have difficulties to handle an erection? A ring could helps too.
    Also we use plenty of lub, it helps to do not feel the chaffing and get not excited. To keep the erection we role play with my wife in some fantasy we both (and mainly her) like. Time to time she hold my hair, It helps a lot. Up to you to find the fantasy that get you hard.
     
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    Please don't read anything beyond this point... I am not qualified to offer advice

    When I read a thread like this I often ask myself if I have moved to crazy town. If I have, then I must be the mayor...

    Banding... Cutting off circulation to your body parts is a horrible idea... This will either permanently ruin a piece of your body or you will give yourself gangrene.

    I guess we all have a different definition of Safe Sane and Consensual. DO NOT BAND YOUR PENIS, YOUR BALLS OR ANY OTHER PART OF YOUR BODY. If you do this then you are taking medical advice from people on here who are most likely not medically trained. Good luck with that!

    If you don't want to feel anything when you have sex, leave your device on, and use a strap on.

    If your wife wants PIV sex, then give it to her. People play with chastity for lots of different reasons... None of us know your reason... If you are doing it for your wife, then you aren't listening to her. She wants you inside of her... So give her what she wants.

    If you are doing it for you, then get ready for disappointment. You are in a relationship with a real person with feelings, wants and needs as well...

    Keep in mind that this was probably not your wife's fantasy... It was yours... You are her fantasy... So be great at making her happy.

    Don't band any part of your penis.
     
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    Apart from risks of thrombosis or even necrosis banding gets its results by damaging the dorsal nerve. Don't make the mistake thinking the body would / could repair that damage always completely.
    The body is able to heal most nerve damage to a certain degree, but there is no guarantee that every nerve damage could be healed completely and that your experience will be exactly the same as before.
     
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    Do not use banding. Stop thinking about it.
    It’s dangerous for people to casually mention it. It’s not safe. Nerve damage can easily be permanent and painful.

    OP,
    What does your wife want? Does she want you to have stamina? Mine doesn’t. She likes me sensitive.

    Numbing cream done regularly would reduce sensitivity. Your plan could work. I guess I find that even tautness and pressure from squeezing my cock can cause me to spill. It’s not just the surface sensation that does it.

    Ruined orgasms. Perfect ones that keep me hard are how we go. She’ll give me a few to bleed off pressure and ride me. It’s fun.

    My wife’s learned my tip over point so well. It’s been a way to connect.

    Our dynamic would diminish if I was less sensitive. My wife enjoys overwhelming me and having me be easy.

    Some men here use strapon dildos to pleasure their wife. @Tom Allen has some content on this. His wife has preferred a high quality silicone dildo over the cock he keeps in his cage.

    If you’re completely numb it won’t be that much different than using a dildo anyway for you. And these dual density silicone pieces are pretty nice. I have one. I’ve felt it up and it’s nice. Especially if it’s warmed.

    that would take less daily touching for you and more time in chastity. Less worry and fuss.

    Just use a strapon and keep you penis healthy and safe in chastity.
     
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    Really? using regularly numbing cream is enough for decreasing sensitivity with time? where did you find this info? I am curious
     
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    Agree with the other posters, do not band anything! There was a user on here a few moths ago that had done damage to himself banding.
     
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    No idea if it works through time, at least it works for a couple of hours with Lidocaine 5% and a small nuts, use a bigger one all over your penis to its base for a longer effect.
    More than 5% is not sold in Belgium so I can't tell you for higher concentration but it should be more powerfull.
     
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    I would never want to numb little willy. I love the feeling of riding the edge and begging my wife to let me cum. I also love it when she says no. The longer I go without an orgasm, the better it feels, but the danger of an accident and a ruined orgasm increases.
     
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    Personnaly i do not ask my sub to penetrate me directly with is penis (I prefer use a strap on and keep him in belt that’s more fun for me ^^). But please don’t do anything risking like banding your penis, I don’t think your wife would like to have crippled men. You can use some tube that you put around your penis and have no sensation at all. Safier than banding.
     
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    I have been experimenting with banding over the last year. I tend to do 2 x 30 mins or so. It tends to numb me for a few weeks at a time. I haven't noticed any drop off in feeling or sensation when allowed to fully heal.
    It doesn't really let you perform fully though. I cannot be fully erect when numb. Only 70% ish.
    One time, I did it drunkenly, and must have had it on for longer, because I didn't get the full feeling back for a couple of months.

    It's not something to take lightly. But because of my undeveloped testicle and uncircumcised penis, it's the bast way for me to remain fully chaste.
     
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    It seems that if you Let your dick hang in lukewarm tea a few times a day for fifteen minutes that some kind of callus will form on it
     
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    This is kind of hit and miss. I have taken Sildenafil, used 2 applications of numbing cream, cleaning it off, putting on a condom, and even a cock ring. There are times I'm like a machine and go on until too tired to move, or I shoot off in 20 seconds.

    The only sure fire thing for me, is wearing a penis sleeve or the black mamba xl. I can hardly feel anything and the wife gets the ride of her life. Only downside for her, the thicker you go to deny sensation, the more she has to accommodate and can leave her on the sore side for a few days.
     
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    I see this is an old thread that has been renewed... but if your wife wants PiV (with and orgasm) and doesn't want you to cum... and you are just an average ordinary Joe Smoe... I think she is being unrealistic. Just my opinion.
     
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