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    Hi,
    I'm a relatively new key holder. One of the concerns my partner had, before agreeing to be caged for anything more than a day or so at a time, was that he would shrink. I responded that I would take it out every so often and measure it. I know that makes his stomach flip, I guess because like most men he worries about size. (There's actually nothing remarkable either way about his physiology!)

    I'd like to make those measuring sessions (probably every month) as stomach flippingly embarrassing as possible for him, without being cruel or horrible.

    One thing that I know would work is if I invited someone else to take the measurements with me. However, I would need to get his permission first (we've agreed not to involve anyone else without getting permission, and I doubt he would agree), and even then, there's just about nobody I know who I could ask.

    Does anyone have any other ideas about how to make those measuring sessions more delightfully uncomfortable for him?

    Thank you. Sal
     
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    Don't know if you are active on social media with him (facebook, twitter, etc) but you could post the measurement numbers with no explanation. Just post the number each month.

    If it was me, I would have my hands secured behind my back. Taken out of my cage, gotten hard to measure, maybe teased a bit, and then put back in the cage and had my hands released. That way there would be no 'accidental' touching.
     
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    Thanks for the suggestion about social media. I think for him the only way that would be embarrassing is if anyone could connect him or me with the messages, and that's definitely beyond our limit. We have both decided on confidentiality.

    I like the idea of him having his hands tied though. That means that keeping it hard would be all down to me, and I could 'accidentally' let it start to go soft. I think he would find that quite uncomfortable. Fun!

    Sal.
     
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    I would hate having a pic taken of the event….
     
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    Right on. I wasn't sure your dynamic. My wife is kind of my KH.
     
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    Wow. That would be really difficult for him, and me I think. I don't think we can quite trust pictures not to pop up in the wrong place some time, so I think this one's a no. Great idea though. Sal.
     
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    You could have his tied behind his back and also use a blindfold so he wont be a able to see his own erection and you could tell him he is getting smaller or you could tell him what ever you wanted such as it is half the size or it has got bigger.
     
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    Oh, that's clever! This is yet another of those 'why didn't I think of that?' moments! I love the element of doubt this would introduce. I think I would say something ambiguous, like 'its ok', or 'I should think all men vary a bit'. Thanks again. Sal.
     
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    say things like " look my hands have no problem wrapping around it now."
     
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    Chart it. You can use a calendar as well. If you have him blindfolded, depending on the results you could tell him whatever you want and chart the results. That way he can’t see his erection, but he can see the “results”.
     
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    and yet...

    He has admitted he has anxiety about it and yet you still pursue it. Are you gaslighting him for your fantasies?

    If you did it then you would be cruel and horrible. End of.

    This seems more and more like a man's fantasy than a woman's, or the fantasy of a fucking narcissist.

    Or research for a documentary for some cheap cable network.

    Definitely not the behaviour of someone that loves him, if he exists at all.
     
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    You could really play with his mind for a while.
    Each time, blindfold, take the measurement, cage him back up and only then remove the blindfold. Then ignore the real measurement and write down a measurement just a fraction smaller than the last one. Repeat as long as the fun lasts!
     
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    Blindfolded measuring sessions sounds amazing! You’ll have total control and can tease him constantly, maybe throw in some comments about needing to order a smaller cage as well :)

    I would love for my wife to tease me like this lol
     
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    How ever you want to do it but at least have his hands secured behind his back or overhead so he cannot touch himself. Also spreading his legs apart could add to it
     
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    Thanks, but I couldn't see myself doing that! At least not for more than a day or so! Sal
     
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    Yes, thank you! I think that would definitely add. Sal.
     
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    Hmmm... I think the size humiliation route is not for us, but the blindfold is good! Sal.
     
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    In reality, it seems that he will shrink a bit over a long lockup. Given a few days uncagged, he should return to normal size. Personally, I think it is a healthy practice to let him out once a week to grow and move blood around. Basically, tease him and lock him back up.

    I love the chart idea. Post it on the refrigerator. Shrinking is actually a major fantasy for some men. If he is one of them, you can have a lot of fun.

    You are an amazing woman!
     
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    Of course you can have fun teasing him while your measuring him to “see if you can get it to get any bigger.”After all your looking for the largest measurement Then let it go soft and lock it back up for next time
     
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    That sounds fun! Sal
     
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    Thanks! The chart sounds fun. Not sure about sticking it on the fridge, unless we can think of some different labels for the axes! Sal.
     
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    It’s his score for the week as to how he behaved for you and a 10 would be perfect lol
     
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    Do you mind if I ask you, how come you never got verified so you could improve your experience on this website.
     
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    He should have his hands bound behind him and you should pull down his trousers and unlock him.

    Then, remove the cage and let his dick sag.
    Measure it flaccid.

    Maybe use an ice pack to keep it small.

    Then tell him to make it hard without touching it. Then measure again.
     
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    Securing his hands behind his back and telling him to hump a pillow, or the mattress, etc. to get himself hard would probably be silly enough to feel embarrassing but also get a laugh at, depending on the energy.
     
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