Major Lesson Learned

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    #1 Obsequious, Apr 20, 2020
    For anyone who read my “Needing A Lady’s Help” post over the past couple of days I wanted to share a lesson just taught to me by a 20 yr old young Lady just last night.
    I’ve been searching for Ladies to take control of my Lovense Hush device as instructed by Madame E. I reached a young Lady (out of respect I’ll leave her nameless) who agreed to help me... she agreed to “Take Control” as I’ve been begging Ladies for. To make this short... we had an agreed time last night when she would take the helm for as long as she liked (minimally 1 hour) as required by Madame. I was to be naked, Hush in place and activated, steel collar locked on and wrist cuffs locked to collar. I did as instructed. I was laying there at 11:20 as agreed. I said I would be there waiting for her arrival. I laid there... 11:30... 11:50... 12:20... 12:45... still nothing. I laid in this position until 1 am. At that time I passed the hour and felt she just wasn’t helping me.
    Upon waking this morning it hit me! She ABSOLUTELY took control last night! I was splayed out as required, restrained, plugged and in silence awaiting her arrival. She HAD me get into this position, she instructed me how I should be and be “Waiting” “Ready” for HER! She had me laying there for almost two hours! How is that NOT control!
    So... I wrote her and her KH Thanking then both for such an amazing lesson. I would never have thought that NO action on her part other than a few instructions would be SUCH an amazing lesson.
    Ladies reading this... REALIZE your TRUE power! Realize that sometimes leaving your chaste “slave, pet, toy, boy/boi” as you wanted him giving him NOTHING more than time to think IS a major lesson for us selfish chaste males!!! Yes... I admit it, I act selfishly! Even when locked away! I still think with the lil head! So SO sad!
    THANK YOU to the Ladies who schooled me last night! THANK YOU to all of the Ladies who use this tactic to teach their chaste males such invaluable lessons!!!

    Humbled and Honored!!!
    “O”
     
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    #2 filltee, Apr 20, 2020
    Raises the question .. is your Lady ignoring you because she has other more interesting things going on, doesn;t give a damn or is she exercising control by leaving you wanting even craving attention.

    Food for thought in relation to head-fuck games.
     
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    #3 Obsequious, Apr 20, 2020
    Given the timing and the preparation of last night I would say she left me to stew. She took the time to instruct me when and how I should be waiting for her. Then allowing me to lay in waiting... I can only speak for myself of course, I took it as she controlled the situation by doing nothing and leaving me as I was.
    But... it is food for thought.
     
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    #4 chastesoon, Apr 20, 2020
    Sounds more like you have been had! Just my opinion though!
     
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    #5 Obsequious, Apr 20, 2020
    Duly noted and Thank You! Being who I am and how I think and feel towards women... even if I was had there is a lesson learned. That is my main point I guess. Males are “had” daily by Ladies. I believe each time there is a lesson being taught by these Ladies. Just my thoughts.
     
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    #6 asimpleman23, Apr 20, 2020
    Um...
     
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    #7 bondinchas, Apr 21, 2020
    Very likely all those things and probably a few more you haven't thought of!
     
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    #8 Abstraction, Apr 21, 2020
    I wonder if the topic starter expected to learn something different. :)
     
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    #9 asimpleman23, Apr 21, 2020
    the curriculum is set by the student. one couldn't rightly call it 'free school', though.
     
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    #10 madams-sissysub, Apr 23, 2020
    This is a common punishment my madam will use, she will just retract all interactions regarding BDSM/FLR it is a harsh lesson!
     
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    #11 filltee, Apr 24, 2020
    I have little doubt of that in my Lady's case... no reason why it should be any different in your case.;)
     
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