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    Hello. Moved from long time Lurker to member. Hid my fetish for chastity from my wife for over 20 years. She found my play steel (Chinese) devices while cleaning about 3 months ago. After a long talk she was willing to be my KH and soon chided me for not bringing this to her sooner. My main reason for wanting an effective chastity is an uncontrollable urge to self pleasure. It so bad and disruptive that we did not have PIV for almost a year and started ED meds. She was fully onboard with chastity and our sex life took off, short lock-ups got her excited and kept me ready. No more ED pills to get it up as I was no longer self pleasuring, I was ready when she was.

    I have tried a number of devices my first was a cb2000 back in the day, a couple of steel cages and a Holy Trainer V4 which I loved but would turtle out of. I brought this up to my wife that I have not found an effective device, she was game for trying a number of devices before buying me a dream belt. Today is my first day locked in a MySteel Transformation total system, ergonomic, hip-style with double active chains. With some accessories for her pleasure. Let me tell you I love this belt it is totally secure.

    Seeing no more turtles or pullouts in my future. Look forward to being ready when allowed release. I imagine that withholding her pleasure for a year plus may likely come back to haunt me in the future. Looking forward to new adventures and may have a real life “Be careful what you wish for” experiences in the future.

    Shoutouts to my lovely wife for just being awesome and #mysteel for excellent customer service, a quick turnaround from order to delivery and excellent craftsmanship! You made my dreams a reality.
     
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    That is wonderful! Welcome!
     
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    #3 Neander, Mar 22, 2021
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    A great example of why early communication is necessary.
    You two could have had a more fulfilling sex life for years. She may have been wondering for a long time if she is no longer good enough for you, if she is no longer sexy for you. While the answer to that is so simple!
    How is the knowledge of the benefits of male chastity supposed to spread when so many men are hiding it?
    Years ago, my wife discussed my need with her friends. The responses, as far as I know, were rather dismissive or with disbelief. So our evolution took longer than necessary. If only one of them had said: go for it, you'll only benefit, that´s what we are doing for a long time (as if she would answer that topic now) - it would have saved us a lot of discussions and in/out attempts.
     
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    Such a nice intro from you, and I’m so glad to hear that you’ve found a mutual solution. It’s a little too bad it took so long, but I think most of understand how difficult it can be to open up, even with your partner.

    Congrats on your new secure device. I’m sure we’ll appreciate hearing updates how it’s working for you.
     
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    Welcome to our community. Glad you took plunge, both in explaining to wife and joining our group. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    Congratulations on your new device and success. Your story is very familiar to mine and others here. Good luck and always be sure to keep your wife happy and you should continue to have great success.
     
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    hello and welcome. Good luck
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Greetings Traveler! Welcome to The Mansion!!!
     
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    Nice intro and welcome to CM! Isn't that "be careful what you wish for feeling" great? I personally love this mix of constant mental arousal, anticipation, dread and sexual frustration.
     
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    Welcome to Chastity Mansion. It seems your on your way to some special times with your wife! Good luck and enjoy the ride!
     
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    Welcome! Your new belt sounds awesome. I hope you and your wife enjoy it.
     
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    It's always nice to welcome another masturbator husband to CM. You're not alone, many of us have become so self-centered about our erections that we've left our wives unsatisfied and confused and affected her self-esteem. I pray that your wife is strict with you and teaches you to value and crave her (very infrequent) permission to become erect and enter her holy place.
     
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    Congratulations and welcome to the club!
     
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    Did she give you any idea how long this first real Lock up time will be?
     
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    We have been working on adapting to the new belt, it is taking a few days but going really well. First day was 8 hours, then we did 32 hours, now I have been locked for two days. Sure it will continue to build from there. Not going to push will let it go at her pace. We did have PIV the other day it was mind blowing good, even after such a short lockup.


    That is exciting and scary at the same time. I get even more excited in the belt and find it hard to concentrate throughout the day already. Looking at other threads on long term denial is exciting to know it can be done.

    The other thing I didn’t consider is how emasculating it is to not have a crouch bump. I read the journal by @MeanBitch she talks about the mental trip from not only the loss of touch but also having a flat front. I can say this certainly adds to the experience, combined with a need for different underwear and having to wear a pad daily to catch urine drops and leaking.

    I am curious about one more thing, I have not received any replies to my review or question thread about full belt cleaning and life hacks. Though have received two PMs with questions about the transformation belt. I also see there is not much information on the site about the transformation belt. Are others embarrassed about talking about this type of belt in the open forum?

    Thank you everyone for the warm welcome.
     
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