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Discussion in 'Introductions' started by SubD, Jan 12, 2021.

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    Hello all,

    I finally decided to create an account after lurking for years. My wife and I have been married for 6 years and over the holidays we entered into a relationship agreement documenting our FLR. As seems common, I initiated this arrangement. Currently in an Evotion Orion that works like a charm.

    I am hoping to meet like minded people and join your community here. Fantasy and reality are two different things, and I can see the benefit in having a peer group to talk things through with.

    I am looking forward to sharing more with you all over the next few days to get things started!

    Thanks!
    SubD
     
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    Reality and wearing a chastity cage full time are completely compatible! There is no need for it to unduly hinder you in your daily life. A little more thought and discretion is required. Mrs Chaste has had me locked up for over 7 years now! Enjoy and have fun. As kinky or as vanilla as you like!
     
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    Chris_S Be careful what you wish for!

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    Welcome to a really friendly site and be careful what you wish for!
     
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    Welcome. It's wonderful to have another locked obedient husband here. If you're lucky your days of unsupervised erections have come to an end. Accept that and accept her leadership, focus on her emotional needs -- it's why you bought the cage.
     
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    Welcome out of the shadows and into our community. I can tell you'll enjoy being part of it.
     
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    hello and welcome
     
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    Thank you for your words, this is actually exactly what I meant when I said reality and fantasy are different. I have wanted this for so long. Now that it is finally happening I’m both overwhelmed and underwhelmed haha. Accept her leadership, focus on her emotion needs, accept that unsupervised erections are over - great advice. Thank you.

    And thank you to all for the warm welcome!
     
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    Chris_S Be careful what you wish for!

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    Oh now that has raised a number of questions for me.

    "Unsupervised erections". Are there any other categories? I have numerous "unsanctioned erections", inside and outside of cage. Caging for me is when I am naughty, currently not being left unsupervised without one including sleep. Ok, I've been quite naughty. I am defiant and cheeky and I cannot help it. Time will tell and my KH is growing into her role, a little scary that. I tease myself in the cage with erotic media, punishment fits the crime there. In the penal system (HA!) there are stretches in prison that differ in duration according to the crime, so maybe we should draw up a type of punishment fits the crime list. In the UK, "Life" used to be 15 years but it is going more like the USofA system where you can be sentenced to 200 years, which is odd to me.
    Comments?
     
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    Greetings Traveler! Welcome to The Mansion!!!
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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