I could not find an existing thread to post my 2 cents about this site so I decided to start one and I hope other members who find that CM is more than a place to chronical their chastity adventure will add their voices to this thread. I need to thank you for the way you maintain this awesome site. It has a truly diverse community ranging from those using chastity to just enhance their love life to those such as us using it as a tool to those into a serious domme-sub lifestyle. Yet everyone is accepted and treated with respect. Chastity is the main subject but all aspects of sexual relationships are discussed yet there is so little porn and crude language the site could be rated PG-13. This makes it comfortable for people like my wife, Missy, to read virtually anything here. Yes it is a place where we relate our stories about our journey but it is so much more. The community is very interactive in a positive, civil way and it provides support, encouragement, and education. A little humor and debate get thrown in to make things fun and interesting outside of the chastity world. For Missy and me it has been a safe place to help us talk to each other about the hard things in our love life. We have found a group of, as Missy calls them, imaginary friends that support us and encourage us and offer wise suggestions when we are struggling and cheer for us when we have break throughs. They act like friends but because we don’t actually know each other, my very private Missy can bare her soul and say the things that are hard to say to me without crying. It lets me compose my thoughts and say the hard things using the right words to express myself. Missy says it then becomes like a promise because our imaginary friends will hold us to what we say and keep us on track. A win-win. We started this journey with our sex life on a train bound for nowhere. In just our few months here we have both made giant strides. I for one have come to realize that intimacy and orgasms are two separate things and often intimacy is better than an orgasm. The technology is good. The site is user friendly and has few if any glitches. A feat in itself. I would not object if this was made a sticky thread so it is always near the top and people will see it and add their experience here at CM. We all need to be reminded once in a while of what a unique and special place this is. Please keep up the wonderful work you do for all of us.
I agree. This is a well-maintained site and quite civil, for the most part. I think of Chastity Mansion as a support group, in a way. I've found a lot of good information here, not all of which is vital for me, but that which is has been very helpful. Discussions on what chastity means to different people are illuminating. We are not all the same, and I really appreciate that. Posts here helped me find a chastity device suitable for nearly 24/7 use, so Mistress is happy. And most of the folks here are quite supportive. The stories & fantasies are also generally interesting & amusing. Very little is too over the top, at least from what I've read. (I don't read everything, though.) So yes, a well-deserved hurrah for L-U-C-Y, and all who may be involved in keeping Chastity Mansion running as well as it does. Thank you!
This site has been well run from the start. Mistress Watchful did a great job for many years. Sadly when she left it went downhill some, but the guy who took over at least kept the spirit and community so it survived. Thankfully Ms Lucy took over and has taken the site and done an excellent job. I haven’t always agreed with her on things, but I’ve been a supporter of hers all along. So I’ll say that we are so lucky to have her running the site. She does an amazing job and without her, I doubt the site would have survived. Personally I can’t say a big enough THANK YOU to her.
Ms L-u-c-y has been hard working and diligent in maintaining and improving CM. Job well done. Thank you Mistress.
As a reasonably long term member here, I do believe @L-u-c-y and her team have done an amazing job at stabilising, maintaining and - maybe not the right word but - protecting the community. So nice to have a site where scammers don't survive and those looking for a quick buck don't hang around. Nice thread @Hubby&Missy, and "here here"!
Also agree. I've opened and looked at this site almost daily since I found it by accident several years ago. Fun, pleasant, and even educational!
I agree. They have created a space of safety, knowledge and growth. The Mansion is a safehouse for those who want to talk and share what we like, want and desire, but cannot. There is no judgement here, only learning and acceptance. Even though we do not use our real names, we are free to be ourselves. We are free to ask the questions we have always wanted to ask. Talk about what we really want and to ultimately gain the confidence to finally discuss what we have longed for in private, with those who we love. I am often not at a loss for words, but I simply cannot accurately express my gratitude and thanks for having such a place exist and actually accept me as a member. The best I can do is: Dear Ms. L-U-C-Y and Company, Thank You. What you have created has directly and indirectly changed peoples lives for the better. You helped me and continue to help me become a better Father, a better Husband and a better Man. Sincerely, Isopropylforyou
I have to agree with all the sentiments given here. It has given a safe space to learn. I have been able to share this site with my wife and we have been on a wild, loving adventure ever since. It also has given a rare view into the private lives of other couples which feels very real, even though anonymous. Thank you to all who keep this site going.
Hubby started this thread back when he first realized how much progress we had made in talking to each other about sex. He attributed it to this site. @L-u-c-y you have an amazing site here, in part because of the people who have joined it. You have built a diverse community that actually cares about each other. Even many couples in an FLR/chastity that is so different from ours have been supportive and encouraging throughout our journey. I truly believe that our Thanksgiving miracle would never have happened had it not been for our ability to communicate on this site with each other about the very difficult subject for us, sex. I don’t know how you brought together a community that is so accepting and caring but so diverse at the same time. I recently looked at some other chastity and FLR sites for the first time and did not see the diversity or the interaction or the acceptance of different life styles that I see here. I didn’t sense the friendly, community vibe I feel here. This is an amazing place. I don’t believe we would have found that support at any other site for our unique situation. Thank you so much for allowing us to use your site on our journey. When Hubby joined CM it was out of frustration and fear because much as we loved each other our lack of a sexual connection was destroying our marriage. When he posted our story I was upset because I felt like he exposed me and our problems to the whole world. He eventually was able to assure me that we were totally anonymous. That morning when we reached our nadir and I was sure our lives were crumbling, I remembered what he said and out of sheer fear I looked at this site as an imaginary friend. I frantically wrote all the things I needed to say to Hubby. When I finished he hugged me and we cried. That was our new beginning. Our experience here has been better than any marriage counselor could have ever provided. I don’t know how the magic of bringing people together who have only one thing in common happens. You have created a very special place with very special members. Thank you. Missy