Lube for urethral inserts

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    Hi, do you guys recommend any lubes to use with urethral inserts on chastity cages?

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    Surgilube is the most commonly used one. Like the name implies, it's a medical lube that's sterile, water-based, and bacteriostatic. It's also relatively inexpensive. If your insert is metal, than a high quality silicone lube like Eros Pur is a good choice.
     
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    You don't need any.
     
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    The insert is like the one here: https://www.dhgate.com/product/super-small-male-bondage-chastity-belt-stainless/390249790.html

    Here where i am in Europe it seems kind of difficult to find sterile lubes and Amazon doesnt seem to be able to deliver. Any suggestions?

    Is that safe? i tried once but it kind of hurts as i am not used to it.
     
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    It may depend on the quality of device you are using.

    I have the Looker 01 which is a finely crafted item and only used lube once, on the first short try.

    After some research I realised that just being wet was sufficient lubrication. So I ensured it was clean and very wet prior to it going in. Straight out of the water and in, and I never had any problems.

    The urethra is well used to water and I found it worked well just using that.

    Obviously the insert has to be made such that it can cause no damage to the very delicate passage. Some are happy with DHgate ones but be careful.
     
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    Likely many factors here, length, material and experience. It shouldn't hurt, if your body accepts it without lube great, if not surgilube is your best option. You may find that after you've gotten your body used to the feeling of inserting something into your urethra you no longer need the lube.
     
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    Any specific issues you heard? so i can watch out

    Yes, i agree, hopefully my body accepts. xD
     
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    [QUOTE="headlovr, post: 237974, member: 39582" Any specific issues you heard? so i can watch out/QUOTE]


    A good friend who used to be here was badly cut around his member by a “Chinese” device, so I always suggest caution.

    I looked at an insert similar to the one you showed and backed away due to the fact it is in three parts. Just worried that it may come apart whilst inside, but no evidence of that. I would prefer a single piece insert, but that may just be me.

    Hopefully others may have experience of that type of insert.
     
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    I tried out a Chinese device that actually had exposed threads where it attached to the front of the cage. And those threads would be pushed into my pee hole. Very poor design in my opinion.
     
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    All said and done, just do be aware that some Lubes will dry out after a time.
    I've known of three cases now where this has happened all three resulted in tearing of the lining of the urethra as the insert was withdrawn.

    As maid Carrie mentioned water or precum works perfectly well as a lubricant.

    Also, a wet kiss placed on the tip of the insert by your lover before insertion is also a solution.
    The psycological effect of locking one of your kisses inside him can be quite distracting.
     
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    sorry, how do you mean exposed threads?
     
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    He means that the insert took on the appearance of a screw that one might use to erect some shelving.
     
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    Yes, it was very industrial looking. I guess you are supposed to screw it into place.
     
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    I have a cage similar to the you showed. I haven't had any problems with it. I use a silicone based lube. I do clean it before and after each use. As with any insert you should only leave it for 5-6 hrs max at a time. There is chance for stuff to get up the tube and start an infection.
     
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    I do think that some of the members who have been wearing inserts for weeks at a time over several years might have different ideas about your specified time constraint.
     
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    I based my option on guys that have worn them as well as advise from a urologist. Wasn't trying to to upset anyone it is just my option based on my research. Sorry to cause mixed felling on this subject.
     
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    I think you will find, if you did consult a urologist that he would have had no personal experience of long term insert wearing as well as having no records of any patients who have ever worn inserts in chastity for extended periods.
    Furthermore, any professional urologist worth his salt would advise you not to attempt such a thing under any circumstances.
     
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    Don't worry about it. Your opinion is as good as anyone's. All the other posts are only opinions at the end of the day. If you think a few hours is safe for you then go for it. Stay safe and have fun.
     
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    A look at my avatar shows what I have been using...although for short periods of time. I agree that lube may not be necessary with the proper amount of arousal. There are many good pieces of advice in all of the previous posts. Have fun...!!
     
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    Aquagel or ky gel, both used for medical exams, water based and packed sterile.
     
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