My wife, has decided that I stay locked when she's not using it. I thought maybe I'd be free this week at work but she asked me Sunday night right before I went to sleep if I put it back on. So shit just got real. I'm excited and scared. She also was open to the idea of using a strapless dildo on me. That might happen this weekend. She said she's never fucked a guy before. ,
I'm not sure why, maybe she's just getting into it more. Also we do have a 2 year old and 2 teenagers. So our sex life was kind of lacking. This way we have a kink that keeps it spiced up when we don't have time during the week. She's enjoying it and so am I.
Can relate. I have a toddler myself, he’s not far from two and it’s amazing really that chastity has benefitted my relationship with him. Which is probably an odd statement. But take away the desire to watch porn when you’re supposed to be spending time with them and our time becomes far more meaningful. Take away the rush at bed time as you want to get them away on time in hope of your own sexual conquest, that time becomes far more relaxed and enjoyable… Plus, strapons! Chastity wins in every situation, the fear is irrational
Welp it happened last night I spent around 45mins pleasuring her and suggested we try the new toy on me. It's strapless so she had a problem keeping it in her. So after a like 5 to 10 mins trying she just used the dildo with her hand for like 15 mins it was amazing. I asked if she wanted to use a strapped model and I ordered one then and there. I might get to get some piv tonight but I'm kinda doubting it. She was very enthusiastic about her thrusting it into me and I can't wait till the next time. And she has reassured me that the cage only comes off when she wants to use it. I'm so fucked. It's a great feeling know she's really getting into taking control.