We are back and forth with lock ups. Cant last more than two weeks as one or the or the other falls apart with it. Hubby wants to lock, wife likes it but cant make it last. Both work and have kids. What do you recommend?
Follow her lead. I don’t see anyone loosing! Over time, who knows where she might take you. Give her the control.
For now it is working some so stick with the way and do it as time allows and hopefully it will slowly get better for both of you
If this works for you, great. If you want a longer lock up, put the keys somewhere not easily accessible, like work or in a gallon of ice. Of course have an emergency back up key if you want. This way when the urge to unlock you before the allotted time it is not easy
Just stick to what she tells you! Anything else is just going to cause problems. If she loses interest, then don’t mention it and wait until she brings it up again. I know it’s a hard pill to swallow, but there is no other way if she is not a true dominant by nature. good luck with your journey!