Looking for a thread to direct my keyholder to

I know you weren't asking Me but the question still applies as I am a female KH here...

If someone needed to verify My biological gender that badly, I likely wouldn't care about their opinions of Me in the first place.

 

Ah. So you meant verification in respect of a KH forum only.

But the difficulty with photos etc as I see it is (a) they could be of someone else (often are!) and (b) if genuine they risk posters in difficult positions. Suppose the person is e.g. a local councillor, or even M.P., or works with the general public in an official capacity, e.g. at a Job Centre.

And in any case as @Sarah8 said there are M KHs too. On reflection, I'd have no problem with them either. There are even switch situations where control is reciprocal or transferred. Nor in fact with male Mods (who do have access on the chastityforums site though only participate for Admin functions). And Jens at least would need access as he has the CM account. And I'd nave no problem with @maid_carrie for same reason.

But I would restrict in other ways. Firstly, I'd not even consider anyone a member been so less than a year or so. Apart from 'voyeurs' there is a huge resource on CM elsewhere already and well sufficient info for such new KHs if they look around. I'd also expect them to have made a substantial number of posts from which it would be evident that they could have a substantial contribution to such a Forum.

 

Ideas and comments, not desires

 

Very well put @Sarah8, thank you.

I confess to being one of those errant males who dared to post a response on a thread aimed at key holders only. I did so, because I felt that I had something to contribute that seemed not to have yet been considered by other posters.

 

Interesting. I think perhaps that the tenor of this thread makes it better moved to Sitewise. The subject (among others) is something I had been expecting to raise there when I got around to resuming posting after a break. Much food for thought here.

 

I am inclined to agree now.

 

I don't see why you would think that. Typical bank account name J. Smith... jane janet john james ???
the first name initials on an account tells you nothing. Plenty of androgynous forenames too IF given instead of initials. Andy Alex Adrian Angel...

The only way to verify gender that I can envisage working is a person wishing to be given a password to a women only area would have to use a webcam or skype ...or similar to make a conference call and speak to whichever existing 2 or 3 female members was doing the vetting. Then the vast majority of men attempting to pass themselves off as women would fail.

 

I do not see how that helps at all.
I do not think you have grasped the concept of this thread

Why there be a need to verify a Keyholder's partner was male.

The need is for a female member on applying to join a password protected women only area would have to be able to prove HER gender. A picture of a penis caged or otherwise is not going to help anyone.

 

but it would be a second person in the picture.

 

How long do you think it would take to find any number of pictures on the net of couples with him , or her or even both, in a chastity device.