Hi - I have tried chastity off and on for a couple of years. Usually, I get running around and have not found the right cage although I have tried a batch. The metal ones are too heavy and the plastics are too bulky. I am locked by my choice, no one else's. Always felt that my cock was sort of small and the chastity cage sort of lets me accept that and move on. I am a bedwetter too if that makes any difference to anybody and wear diapers at night. I am interested in finding new cages to try.