Not sure what the longest time is between joining and introducing yourself, but it looks like I joined over 7 years ago! I lurked for a little while, and have been off of the site for probably the last 6 years. Just now getting back into chastity, and knowledge is power. (And the only "power" I have right now I have been into chastity off and on for well over 10 years, and have been frustrated with lots of different cages. (I'm a grower.). Currently on day 12 of a 16 day contract with the wife/KH. And she's amenable to continuing after that. (The user name was picked 7 years ago back when she wasn't as interested in playing along. Things are a little better now.). I'm still struggling to find the right device. As you'll see once the avatar is approved I'm also into Cosplay, and love leatherwork as a hobby as well.
Welcome back! I was somewhat similar except I rejoined under a different name. I joined under the name @tinyone111 in 2009 I lurked and learned all the way until 2016. That is when my now wife agreed to be my keyholder. At that point I felt comfortable giving input and was able to share my experiences, before that I didn’t feel I had either to share. So, your lurking isn’t unheard of, have fun and hope to hear more
Are Cybermen interested in chastity? I thought they were logical thinkers and reproduce via conversion? Anyways, welcome! And welcome back!
Welcome! Your situation with long-term percolation is not unusual. Many of us who are submissive husbands struggle to acknowledge and accept the feelings that keep bubbling up inside and struggle to come out to our wives. And many wives are initially cool to the idea. But the need never goes away and for the fortunate we come to a point of openness and acceptance with our wives. Good luck, and make sure you show her the benefits to her.