A hearty hello to anyone reading! I have not spent much time on Chastity Mansion but I have accumulated many years on tease sites such as Milovana and searching for more and more JOI videos honing my skills in self orgasm control. After ages of edging and denying myself I finally took the plunge into chastity. I was so nervous the first day wearing my device, well, it was more of a anxious/excited hybrid. My body trembled and my heart raced. My first day wearing it at school was thrilling! I brought my key for safety and wore it on my belt loop. One of the girls I'm into said "what's that" and touched my key ring asking about a yoga studio FOB attached to the key ring. Her finger was centimeters away from my locked cock and she was touching my keys! My mind went numb from excitement and embarrassment. The cage doesn't really make me feel emasculated, I use it to strive to be more productive. I think about what I'm doing when I'm wearing it and begin to contemplate, could I be spending my time more wisely? My exercise regimen has become enhanced and has my tidiness. I'm hoping with finals coming up it also helps keep me studying. I cannot wear the cage over night yet, I do however have the self control to not ejaculate while unlocked (most of the time). Last night I wore it until 5:30am when it became to much. I can wear it all day at school and at work with no issues. I'm hoping to learn from you more experienced folk to either help control my orgasms or as moral support amongst other solo players to stay strong. *Fun Fact* My roommate found out I got a chastity device, I had mentioned I was interested in it to him before. We chatted about it and he was so interested he decided to cash in on the same black Friday sale. He should be receiving his shortly.