Long term psychological effects of chastity?

I have only been locked for 3 months. The one big surprise is how much I miss not being locked up. A few times I have had to take off my cage. Heavy lifting and a few Doc. appointments and I can honestly say It felt strange without it. I would say I underestimated how much my Wife(KH) enjoys it. She has really gotten into this. She enjoys the T&D sessions, the look of me being locked up. She gets a kick seeing me suffer and begging to cum. She had me order 3 more cages, so I have different ones to wear around the house. She love the attention that I give her now. The orgasms she gets now on her demand. And the only regret is that we didn't start this 20 years ago.

 

It's amazing how naked you feel without the cage once you've taken it off after you've been in it for a few weeks. lol

My GF has me take the cage off and masturbate once a week specifically so I don't experience any kind of psychological issues from being in the cage too long. I would tink (but of course I don't know for sure) that one of the side effects of being in so long without any release is that you'd experience performance inhibitions, and probably PE as well.

Why isn't the federal government doing research on this issue? Inquiring minds want to know!!!

 

I'm surprised by how little I miss using my penis for sex. Don't get me wrong, I still want to orgasm and such, but when I think of "sex" the first thing that comes to mind is no longer "penis in vagina until orgasm."

Also, I'm no longer horny at the thought of being locked up. That wore off long, long ago. Chastity isn't a novelty anymore, it's my reality of day to day life so it doesn't have that 'zing' anymore.

 

@Living Curious -- what *is* the first thing that comes to mind? For me, it's oral worship. When I see a porn photo of a the holy vagina, for example, I know most men think of fucking; I think of licking and smelling and listening to her cum. When I walk down the street and see a married woman I frequently wonder when was the last time she was properly worshipped.

I agree that chastity and the loss of free erection is just a normal part of life now.

 

better behaviour, calmer, more understanding.

 

how long u locked and how long denied made you get these feelings

 

Not quite sure of your criteria of long term chastity, continuously locked, denied,etc.

I have been in chastity for 2years 8 months, but not continuously, she’s let me out to play or heal. Ive had orgasms too, usually 15-20 a year.

If that is what your talking about, @Living Curious hit it right on the head about it not being especially erotic anymore. Yes she can turn it that way, but the thought of me locked up, or looking down and seeing the cage is pretty normal. I used to walk around thinking “omg I cant get this off me even if I wanted to, that’s so hot!” Now I walk around and think “I hope I remembered to put baby oil gel on, or this is going to be a long day”.

I also think of it less as a sex organ. 99.9% of the time it’s a spigot for peeing. I don’t find that it feminizes me, but it does emasculate me, as in I don’t feel I really have a penis anymore. Though she she lets me borrow it from time to time.

Expectations have changed. I thought I was going to receive lots of teasing, out of cage, sex as usual just with her input on when. Now I fantasize about getting erections, feeling it, having it touched, and cumming. A starving man thinks a saltine cracker is a feast.

Random acts of service become needs, and an almost temporary insanity. I could be rubbing her feet, and the urge to lick and worship them might overwhelm me. I’m not a foot guy, but it will just hit me.

There is a ton of other small things too numerous to count, we are somewhat chemically altered and the effects happen without even knowing sometimes.

 

i think that is true

 

Yes, this. I still remember very well when I used to have free erections. Now I have this burning need to worship the holy yoni.

 

yoni a indian term for pussy. feeling so desi lol

 

I've been sealed in 24/7 four months so far, and counting.

Long term effect is psychological healing - no sense of double life any more - and increased submissiveness. My wife has also become more assuredly dominant.

> Did anything surprise you (good or bad)?

I was surprised that there really are no practical issues with wearing indefinitely.

> Was there anything about it that you underestimated?

My inability to refuse to comply.

> Regrets?

None.

 

Double life. Elaborate, if you're okay so doing?

 

Actually prefer anal stimulation after 7 odd years of chasity

 

I think most of us twin track our lives - compartmentalize - between kinky self and vanilla self. 24/7/???? wear teaches us that these two selves are the same.

 

I was amazed that my mind became so uncluttered and my thought process so clear once I stopped thinking about sex every ten seconds!

 

This. Except also that I will quite often see a woman with a beautiful butt and imagine what it would be like to worship her ass, especially while her husband or boyfriend is fucking her. I'm not allowed to have PIV sex with my wife anymore, and I never ever imagine having it with anyone else. I only dream of worshiping, receiving humiliation, being cuckolded, etc.