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    Well the adjustments are amazing. I put the Jailbird on when I got it and planned on taking it off after a few hours. It’s been so comfortable that I left it on all night.

    So I’ll take it off during my shower to make sure there’s no rubbing Igor other issues but as comfortable as it is I think I’m ready for a couple of days if there are no issues.
     
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    Just to be clear, when I say "premature" I mean "before she's finished having orgasms" not th
    Glad to hear it, we Locktoberians have been missing you.
     
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    Hang in there buddy. Do what you need to do - ie stay away from any Os. Stay strong. It is totally worth it. Good luck
     
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    Thanks! As I stated earlier I have put the keys on her mirror. I will not touch them without her permission. She has shown zero interest so far so I may be in for a long haul
     
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    Not really a locktober session. I started my current journey about 2 weeks before locktober we were going for a 4 week denial period. Followed by an undetermined amount of time. After the 4 weeks we decided that the teasing and edging can begin. There is talk of waiting until Christmas before aany release might happen but I don't see it lasting past November though. Not sure if it is lucky me or not.
     
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    Yes, that's what I thought you meant. My trouble is that a lot of the time I can't keep it hard enough to get to my own orgasm and I am too soft for her to achieve hers. And when I did keep hard, I couldn't hold back long enough.

    Before she had to finish herself by rubbing herself on my soft cock that had flopped out and was just resting on my stomach. Not very satisfying for her or me in fact.

    The strap on is just so much better all round really. She is guaranteed for have something hard inside her for as long as she wants/needs and I don't have to stress about keeping hard or cumming too soon.
     
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    Two weeks left in Loctober and now the question is do I stay locked throughout NOvember?
     
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    18 days in and still locked. Everyday is my longest being caged. It feels to me like it's getting easier. Many T&D sessions and a few close calls, but no orgasm yet. KH told me to order a few more cages, so 4 are on the way. It sounds like I'm going 24/7, my Wife has enjoyed the attention that she gets and I think she really likes seeing me like this.
     
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    day 18 she examined the device and me (that drove me wild) then I gave her a foot rub.
     
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    Day 19 and I think she wants me to use the strap on on here again tonight
     
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    Well here I am self-locking, and deep into Loc(k)tober. Just today I started to feel a deep sadness in my penis. A low and reverberating desire. But of course we are barely halfway through the month.

    I am not beholden to anyone, I could stop. But I feel, for the health of my future relationships, I should stick to my goal.

    Last weekend I was at a private party, and let someone (whom I had met before) hold my keys for the evening. I hope my attentiveness (fetching her food, cleaning her plate, hanging up her coat, getting her drinks) was enough to compensate for her generosity in holding my keys for one night.

    I figure I can get to the end of the month. I have only removed it for 15 minutes for one cleaning.
     
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    This morning was tough. Full body, foot, leg, bum rub for my Wife. I can't rub, kiss, lick or touch her enough. Now if she is barefoot, I get hard, just looking at her feet. And I was never a foot man. After 45 minutes of T&D for me. I had the "tears" rolling big time. After all of this, my Wife rolls over and start to masturbate beside me. She loves doing this right beside me. She knows it drives me crazy. And she tell me how good it feels to have a orgasm when ever she wants and then laughs. I know it's getting closer to the end of Loctober, but I don't really know if it makes a difference now. We have ordered a few more "cages" and some nice heart shaped locks. I really don't care if Loctober ends, because I know my Wife is liking this way too much and I don't see me being unlocked any time soon...Only for cleaning, which is about 20 minutes every 2-3 days...
     
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    She's really taken to it pretty quickly. I suspect you're going to locked for good from now on.
     
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    Wow, three weeks in and I am feeling it much deeper. It's a very strong and mournful yearning feeling. The last week plus is going to be quite an experience.
     
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    It depends on how you look at these things really, is it:-
    3 weeks in or
    only a week and a half left?

    I have to say that I've found it easier then I thought I would. Sure there have been times so far when I have desired to be unlocked but most of the time I really haven't thought about it.

    When I've been using the strap on with my wife my feelings have been conflicting. Sure I've been incredibly turned on and as erect in my cage as it is possible wishing it was me inside her, but on the other hand I've loved being caged whilst fucking her and not being able to use my own cock.

    I have had the luxury of being edged a couple of times so far and that experience has definitely benefited from the prolonged confinement .

    At this point I have conflicting thoughts about what happens at the end of the month. I'm actually not sure I want to be unlocked!
     
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    Been locked maybe 5-7 days before the start of Loctober. This past weekend, got a metal cage that fits very well. I had the htv2s, that had to be washed at least every few days. I am actually away from my gf for a few days. It hit me that i cant be unlocked this week. I washed the ht almost everyday in the shower but never jerked off. We actually went to a sex toy store in CT, and bought a new cage, a new liberator wedge, and a new toy for her that assists in her orgasms will i go down on her. Im actually hoping we do NOvember too. Let me state, that i started chastiry as a means for more oral sex for her. I enjoy it, and so does she. Sorta hoping she sends me a picture or video of her using her new toy.
     
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    Got snipped first week of October... every morning I woke up to feeling like I got kicked in the balls... no locktober for me this year but certainly abstaining!!
     
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    Locktober may have just become a slightly longer term, I have broken a key........ In the padlock. Wtf do I do now?!
     
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    Needle nosed pliers if you can get a grip you'll be able to unlock it.

    Alternatively a steady hand and a hack saw.

    If it's a plastic cage snap the locking pins.
     
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    Day 24:eek:. This morning started with a T&D hour. My Wife get me hard(With cage on) for 5-10 minutes, then get me to give her a foot rub. Then another ball rubbing until rock hard, then another foot rub. This morning near the end, she got me rock hard once again, then just got out of bed and told me it was time to get up and just left me laying there with a cage full of rock hard cock. It takes me a few minutes to catch my thoughts and get out of bed, only to find I'm leaking like crazy. Still no "O" this month, but one can wish. I have been out of the cage a few times, but only for cleaning and a shave. Maybe a hour or two all together, and the 6 hours one day for some heavy lifting. Well, I hope everyone else is O.K....We are getting there...
     
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    Day 25 and no T&D since weekend before last and unlikely to be edged again before the end of October. She still hasn't decided how Locktober will end.
     
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    Unfortunately I had to unlock as I quickly got some chaffing in my cage. I need more practice staying locked to build up stamina. Never-the-less I have stayed masturbation free so far this month and I plan on keeping it that way (as much as I want to play).
     
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    I've been locked 24/7 since October 1. I have only removed the device twice, for about 15 minutes each time, for a shower and to clean the device. The Queen's Keep is very comfortable, and you can keep pretty clean.

    Since I'm doing this on my own, no keyholder, it's been easier to just forget about it. So with today's wash, I did a little self T&D. I stroked myself to full mast and then let it go, and locked myself back up. That should make the last week a little harder to cope with.
     
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    Day 27
    I've been out twice this month. Once because a testicle managed to somehow work its way loose while I was at work. Couldn't get the other one out without pain, so had to wear the cage half off til I got home and got kh to let me out. Instantly went right back in. Second time was two weeks later for inspection and check up, again, right back in. Only 4 days left!
     
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