Loctober Participants

Just a quick up date some may find funny. I am sure I will find it funny in a few weeks maybe.
Out of the blue @Mistress Jules told me to unlock. I was a bit confused as to why.
I told Mistress Jules I was fine. She said go unlock please.

I unlocked and reported back to her I was like the cat that got the cream.
Mistress Jules said don't get too comfy its a hygien break. check for chafing clean and apply cream.
When you have done that wait for further instuction,

I am not sure if its a wind up or not. I really did have my hopes up,
Evil or funny? I can't make my mind up yet.

 

I reckon Mistress Jules is getting you ready for an even longer period maybe? whatever it is all i would say is that however hard or difficult the end result you know for sure that someone thinks so much of you that they are prepared to put themselves to so much extra work to help you reach your full potential even if you yourself do not yet know what that is. Be sure there are many many men who would kill for the chance to swap places with you mate.

 

This is what @Mistress Jules calls my ramble. This is normally done by email this time its an open letter really. I sit down with my laptop and just type what I am thinking. I never know wich direction it will take. From my head straight to the key board. I never read back over it until I have sent it too her. I think if I proof read I will change things and that wouls spoil it.

 

Locktober 13th (day 16 for me) was not a great day. Apparently the backup cage & ring I switched to was slightly smaller than I had been using, and caused some problems that will need to heal before rejoining the locked crowd

I really need a label on all my parts

 

3 T&D sessions for me today.. 2 tied to the bed, one in the cage and one free. One long on first thing this morning, locked, which was very hard to get through. A lot of leaking in all three. My wife had me on the edge many times, but has sure figured out when to stop. Sunday looks like a rainy day, so it looks like we will be inside, which means Wife will be bored and I'm going to be tied and teased a few times...I thought Sunday was a day of rest...

 

Day 14 for me.

Friday evening was a good one for us. KH was in a frisky mood and we retired to the bedroom in the early evening. She had made an effort to wear lingerie and stockings which she knew would do the trick for me along with a shortish leather skirt. I have to say that she has really taken to the teasing bit as far as dressing provocatively goes - much to my delight and slight discomfort!

Once in the bedroom all attention turned to her, of course. Ended up with me wearing a strap on whilst caged 'doing the business' on her. She had a massive O which was tremendously gratifying for yours truly. I absolutely love fucking her with the strap on whilst caged. I really don't understand why exactly, as of course I get no relief - maybe someone could enlighten me on the psychology of that?

Anyway, she decided to edge me again. This time was even better than the first time this month although I found that I was a little desensitised at first, which is the complete opposite to a week ago. She is definitely getting better at it! The first time I got close she was able to sense it and stopped, the second and third times I did have to say something. But half an hour later the cage went back on.

Is it not in the spirit of Locktober to be uncaged and edged before locking back up? I'm not sure but to a large extent don't care as we're both really enjoying this.

There's the possibility that the strap on might come out again tonight - but of course she'll let me know.

 

For me, I'm thrilled be able (finally) to give her what she wants and needs, and without the performance anxiety of premature ejaculation. And there's this psychology of it confirming my inadequacy and that I'm a better husband both sexually and emotionally when I'm locked and throbbing in my cage, and in forcing me to realize that she, and not me, is multiorgasmic and that sexually she is my superior.

 

Edging makes it so much better, and makes it much harder to get through the month.

 

It's the opposite for me. Locktober means LOCKEDtober, no getting out, no erections whatsoever. I'd love to be edged right about now. Halfway at noon tomorrow, not that I'm counting.

 

Nope- I don’t think so. But then again maybe we’re all a little strange

 

I am celebrating all of Loc(k)tober, self-locking. I am seeing someone on occasion who is not dominant and not interested in keyholding (and doesn’t quite care about the chastity); but she wants to be supportive if I am challenging myself so she let me know she’s cool if I want to go the distance.


Sept 23 was my last full orgasm; I was on the road, not alone, all that week. I was not caged and there was no release at all that week. On Sept 30, I had two *ruined* orgasms and I am regretting i didn’t just empty the tanks and “reset.” Locked the evening of Oct 1 and have been locked since (one brief cleaning only).


Saturday night I was at a party (a rather permissive party). A friend of mine who is dominant agreed to hold my keys for the evening, symbolically (and I received a bit of corporal discipline as well). The party hostess wanted to explore my body so I lay back and let her touch everywhere...both she and I were a little frustrated that the cage was firmly in place.


So, yes, I’m frustrated, but we’re all just about at the halfway point!

 

Last night marked 9 weeks in chastity and locked. I have been out for business travel and only one edging session. I'm locked for the foreseeable future so I'm August, September, October and beyond.

Consider me sexually frustrated.

 

Went 46 days locked but had to unlock for a few days. That is my longest lockup. Back in now for day 1. No release of any kind for 59 days now with no end in sight.
This day 1 is also day 1 of my wife knowing im locked so who knows where we go from here.
She doesn’t have much enthusiasm as of now. It I’ve seen with many of you before that this can change rather abruptly. I keep hearing a little voice in my head saying be careful what you wish for!!

 

Got my Jailbird back from Mature Metal.
Just out it on so hope to join everyone for the second half of Loctober

I’ll be taking it off a few times to make sure all is ok, but plan on getting ready for an extended lockup.

 

Been on travel the first half of this month, but I plan on staying locked for the remainder and perhaps longer...

 

I guess I will start late and just stay in through NOvember?

 

I just keep looking down and singing “I’ll be gone till November”.

 

Reading all the posts here. there are people who started early, some starting late and others going on through November.
Maybe I could take a week off in the middle. Its makes perfect sense to me.

 

Hey
Nice to see another Virginian here!

 

Or maybe you can double your time for saying that
Lol

Seriously it seems like everyone is trying to do what they can.

I know I’m getting used to the adjustments on my Jailbird.

 

I did what I could- 46 days but life forced me outta the cage. Back in now- do what I can. Try to stay away from any Os without the Mrs consent and/or participation

 

I'm betting that's not @Mistress Jules favorite idea of the day.

 

I do recognise these types of feelings - certainly it takes the performance anxiety away - for me its maintaining an erection rather than premature ejaculation.

 

Yes, Virginia is for Lovers as they say!

 

Virginia is for lockers