Locktober suggestions?

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Is locktober fun?

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    Any suggestions or ideas you have heard of to (pumpkin) spice up this locktober holiday?
     
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    I think most people who celebrate locktober are beginners looking to complete the challenge of surviving there first month without release.

    From what I've read most people who manage longer lose interest in the novelty.

    Suggestions on how you could spice it up are:

    1. Agree something new to add to the dynamic with partner. For thos wanting to keep things vanilla it doesn't have to be kinky. Maybe encouraging your guy to buy you more flowers or cook more.

    2. For keyholders who enjoy there sexual pleasures maybe challenge him to see how many times he can get you to your happy place.

    3. Use the month to decide how many releases your partner is entitled to next year based on certain challenges.

    4. Make an advent calendar with different surprises behind each door. They can be a trick or a treat.

    Be interesting to see what ideas other people might have.
     
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    Locktober, NOvember, all the same to me! Way beyond the novelty stage, chastity is the norm now. And just as much fun! It's just that after sex I don't loose interest! :). How about wishing your locked partner a happy NOyear on January 1st! I reckon the look on his face would be priceless!
     
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    For us, it's 31 days of no erections. We regularly do 60 -120 days without spurting, but I love my erection and she loves PIV so outside of Locktober he's usually permitted 2-3 erections per month. It gets difficult around 15-20 days but I know it's right. It's No-camber I fear.
     
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    I think the same here.

    I am not really sure how I would take that being said. I think if it happen it would be easier to take
    if I wasn't told first. I think it is the possibility of something is less of an impact than being told. But
    it is up the Her.:+1:
     
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    For those not accustomed to going as long as month without some kind of orgasm why not let the number of days completed in October dictate the number of releases to be allowed over the following 12 months.

    It does not have to be an even exchange.. 30 days in October giving 30 releases may be too many for you ... so 1 release for every ..how ever many days you think suits you best.

    Or any variation on that theme.
    maybe even incorporate NO vember in any one of a number of ways.
     
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    Know what you mean. "Happy noyear, maybe!" Mrs Chaste threatened me with a year orgasm free, maybe! I said I didn't really believe she'd do it! "We'll see shall we? Maybe, maybe not!" On our holiday she got a pair of scissors out and put the plastic lock in between the blades! "Shall I? Do you want to cum?" "Yes please!" "In your dreams!" And climbed onto her strapon! I honestly thought my luck was in! But I still enjoyed watching her cum.
     
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    I'm being released tonight for the first time about 6 weeks, because I've been told Locktober is the end for me for 2018. SO, my last orgasm of the year is tonight. It's both exciting and a little intimidating.
     
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    I think that has become one of my favorite benefits. To be focused and get to see the
    pleasure we can give. I think to me it is the greatest service we can provide. Well said!:+1::lock:
     
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    Locktober is the perfect opportunity of a whole month of peace and quiet. He knows there is no point in asking and I shall have a whole month of peace to write my next chastity book.

    Sounds perfect to me.
     
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    I honestly think it is all about keeping it alive for both of you. Maybe set some self goals ie how many times are you going to verbally tease him today, how many orgasms is he allowed to give you (could this be the number of orgasms he is allowed for the whole of next year how many he gives you this month).

    If you are distance based then maybe think up of 15 tasks, some good, some bad, some ugly, and he gets to choose a number every two days to get a task (number the tasks in envelops etc)
     
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    Can’t wait !! Your books are fantastic!!
     
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