Locktober 2021

I will be participating in Locktober again this year, just don’t know the total duration. The shortest will be 35 days, the longest will be 180 days. For the 35 dat cycle, I will be milked at the 2 week mark and again on 11/1 with cage removal 4 days later. For the 180 days, I will be milked once a month and be given a caged orgasm at least once a month if I have no strikes held against me.

my wife always has some devilish ideas to make it more interesting and may go the extra mile this year to fulfill one of her dark fantasies. Teasing is always constant, we meet in the hot tub at least 3 times a week for a soak, glass of wine, and to talk thru decision impacting our life. Of course there is contact and toward the end of her glass she is relaxed nad gets playful or cuddly.

advice, I wish I had some to give but every situation is different. The big thing is don’t take things personal or let the frustration build. Talk to you wife at all times.

 

We’ve played with cages the last couple years, but it’s become more serious and more fun this year. Longest lockup’s for me so far have only been 26 and 28 days, usually it’s around two weeks.
But I think we’re going to try Locktober this year.
The biggest question will be whether it’s zero unlocks unless a cleaning is needed, so no erections at all, or if my Wife will need to use me a few times. She’s really been enjoying my tongue the last few months, but usually requires some piv after so many days of oral, she has a few “boyfriends” in the bin under our bed for the strap on, but she only likes that once in a while.
I’m excited to try and make it the full month as I’ve only been close to that a couple times.

 

I locked up on August 1. I have been talking big with my wife that she should keep me locked up for the 3 to 12 months that some web page that she clicked with suggested.

So she hasn't exactly said as much, but it seems possible that I may already be locked up for Locktober, and possibly beyond. We'll see how long she wishes to go. She doesn't care about Locktober or NOvember, so it will just be whatever she feels is best for her, I guess.

 

In previous years, our agreement wasn't a constant, so Locktober was a pretty big deal. It also helped my Goddess V. to get in on the fun and take bigger swipes at chastity play. I'm really not sure how to play it this year in that I am always caged. Every month is essentially Locktober and I am really happy and proud of us both for going through the ups and downs to get to that point.

As far as advice, the biggest thing is making it your own and making sure to keep it light and fun.

I am not a big proponent of a full 30 day, no release idea, as much as giving into her say so for the duration, whether that be only pleasurable for her, a release every few days, once a week. Regardless, at her discretion. We have done things like played card and board games for freedom and release, sexual stuff, scenarios.

It's something to consider as a couple in advance to also help the excitement, and of course, as you might imagine Halloween is when it ends, and us sissies love us some slutty Halloween action.

 

Last Locktober was my first. I was locked up in a very heavy metal HTv3. My wife did not believe that I could make the whole month without me asking her to remove the device. She tortured me by tease&denial sessions at least 10 times during the month. Device was never removed. I cleaned it twice a day. I was given 3 caged orgasms. I made it. I completed the Locktober.
Since the begining of this summer I am in cobra N device 24/7. I receive cage orgasms at least once a week and rearly PIV. I am not allowed to come during sex. Right after her satisfaction I receive a cage on release.
I was told this Locktober I will not receive any kind of release. That will be a first for me. Cage will be locked for the whole month. I will receive less and less cage orgasms following weeks to get ready for whats coming.

 

Gf has decidedI will be joining in for my first locktober this year, we're going to get a cherrykeeper for the occasion

 

right now i am 59 days since my last O. I am not on a Schedule, the only thing i can hope for is a release before September 30th. My birthday is Oct.7th and i wont be getting any release then. If i get one the rest of this year i would be lucky.

 

Excellent Locktober is what is says. No release of any kind for any reason. Enjoy the torment and frustration.

 

We did it the first year, now it’s just another month. I go 2-4 months locked so narrowing down one month is a bit silly for her.

One thing I thought would be so hot, is if my kh did it like one of the members here(can’t remember their name but they have a blog as well). She did it as a month long set of trials and teasing. Day is e watch her get herself off, day two go down on her, day three tied to bed and touched, day 5 unlocked and tied teased and locked back up, etc etc.

That kind of constant attention and authority, knowing she is NOT going to let you cum, trying to make you beg, eventually winning and surrender to begging, to no avail, seems like a wonderful month.

This however requires a lot of time, effort, and willingness to be sexual a lot during the month. This is also not very realistic for us, so I m not holding my breath. Sounds fun though.

 

I love Locktober - that said any full month in chastity is a great month in my book - and I'm on course to be fully locked with no release over August already.

My answers to the OP's questions:

Who is in this year (yes, even you lucky "long-haul" types)?
Oh boy, YES! I managed to stay in chastity during Locktober 2020, though my KH very kindly let me have one orgasm mid-month, so hoping to go one step further in 2021.

Are you going for just the month, or "carrying over" into "No Nut November" (if you will excuse the evocation)?
That's up to my KH, though I hope she'll look kindly on me and give me a reward in early November if I complete the whole month.

Are you / your KH planning to ride it out smoothly, or "make it difficult"?
I'm sure she'll enjoy "making it difficult". A smooth ride would be boring.

What is some advice you would give a newbie?
Listen to your body and be open with your KH about how you're finding things.

Any good resources / guides worth reading to prepare / train up?
Almost too many to mention - lots of advice available through searching on CM from previous Locktobers and loads of good blogs on chastity. I like Tom Allen's writings but there are many good authors out there.

P.S. I think the Holy Trainer types are fine for starting out, but if you really get into chastity, I think a custom open metal cage is far better and much easier to keep clean in.

 

This is really great advice and something I recently discovered the importance of. I had thought I could give her enough information in the beginning to be autonomous, and that I'd only give feedback once a week during our weekly relationship meeting. However some things throughout the week would build up and become issues.

Now we're taking an extended period of "open cards" play, as my wife calls it, where I communicate more regularly my thoughts and needs, saying "open cards" first, and she's learning how to dominate and be a great KH with less and less of my input as time goes on.

 

I haven't had a orgasm in over 100 days. My Wife(KH) loves teasing me and having me horny all the time. She has told me a few times this summer that maybe she will let me cum on my birthday in Nov. So yes, we are doing Locktober this year...

 

I would like to partake in Loctober this year, it would be the longest I have been locked up...however, I don't have a KH so making it 31 days may be a challenge..I currently self lock

 

I did Locktober last year but not sure about 2021. Still figuring it out.

 

Not sure, I did 5 weeks back in May/June but had quite the drop in motivation after the O and have been in/out since then. Went on holiday mid-late July and uncaged, remained uncaged until yesterday when I got Mrs Sen t choose one, "oh, lockdown again" was the response. I'm keen but it depends on her.

 

Good luck to all of those that participate!

 

I'm game again to do it. Always try to spice it up or something with my kh. Always gotta be on guard. Especially it being Halloween . Season never know if it's a trick or treat in store.!!!

 

No doubt in my mind. Will be participating in Locktober 2021 for sure. Last year was a success, month number 10 should be no different. We will fuck a couple times a week, but I'll stay locked.

 

Sounds like a lot for a new wife to take on board

 

My Wife is aware of Locktober and NOvember but I doubt she will pay much attention. On an average month I might spend an hour to 2 hours, total out of the cage anyway. In an entire year I might get 1-2 days of cumulative freedom. And I feel lucky, some of us here get less than that!

That being said, all of us boys locked in chastity by our loving keyholders are the luckiest boys in the whole wide world.

 

Hoping to start Locktober the begining of September which will be the begining of Full Time chastity for me.
I've done 90 days at a time before with brief maintenance breaks.
Ordered the V4 Nano which just cleared customs. Have to go check the PO box soon.

 

Sent a link to a blog describing locktober to my KH. This is the first year of chastity for us so she didn’t really know about it. I told her that it seemed like a fun challenge as it would be my longest “no-release” period so far. I’ve gone 3 weeks a couple times, so a month seems doable. She just said that it looked interesting. I assume that’s a yes, but she likes to keep me guessing.

 

I'm doing 100+ days, August through Locktober, until my late November birthday. Hi birthday neighbor!