So after much trial and error on both sides (mostly mine) of how to start and keep up a new way of life with chastity, we took a break and discussed why it failed and what we could both do differently. This is what my girl friend and I came up with. I am to give up porn completely ( I will still be allowed to access this site for posting and support) Due to my work and interaction with customers the cb 6000s can not be worn at all times, but when possible it is to be on. I will treat the penis and balls as if they are hers, only touch if given permission. I do not want to masturbate any more, the only stimulation her cock will get is if she gives it Anal will be given to me at least once a week, to enforce my role of the submissive If and when I am allowed to cum I will eat it Most nights will just be me giving her a back rub I love it when chastity works for both of us; I hope this time will be different. If anyone has any ideas or words of encouragement please let me know. Thanks.