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    Hi all,

    as this is not a device in the strict sense I post this here, but I would like to share our experiences nevertheless.

    First of all, we tried numerous devices, mainly that was me trying, because this is my major fetish in our relationship. With all of them we had some issues. Mostly it boiled down to 1) work for my wife to make my kink work 2) ability to orgasm in the device and 3) hygene and 4) I am not pierced and it is no option.

    For some time now we are using Hypnosis, specifically "Virtual chastity" from Mistress Samba.

    And it works. No fuss for my wife (issue 1). I cannot masturbate without my Keyholders permission (issue 2). No hygiene problems (issue 3) and no piercing necessary. (even so I admit I still like the idea of a lori 12 Frenum or Centurian FL9 ... delicious ... or not ...;))

    It is probably not for everyone. But considering how many experiences are posted about devices, that seemingly too, do not work for everyone the same, I thought I share our experience.

    We started with me listening to surrender and virtual chastity every second night. It took a good while, about 2 weeks, to get into effect. It got harder and harder for me to masturbate. The feeling during a masturbation attempt is not easy for me to describe. It is a kind of combination between "not feeling enough" and "not wanting to orgasm". From our experience it does not help to drink alcohol during the training.

    Now we are really happy with the "device" in place. I still listen about 2-3 times a week.

    Another issue, I always told myself "i do this for my partner", wrong. I started out on the chastity voyage with doing it for MY kink. After the success of the hypnosis chastity I (!) wanted (!) also Small penis humiliation. But could not find anything that really "satisfied" me. Then searched for "anal orgasm", "strapon fun" etc

    Me me me me

    And on this I have to thank especially Mistress Samba, who patiently and nicely helped me shifting my view in another direction.

    My partner would like to have good sex for herself. So turning around we went for "Porn Star Penis". After asking Mistress Samba she told us that it would include a cum sequence ... no go (my veto) ... but she could modify it. Got it. Tried it. We love it.

    The up to date sequence will be now

    Deep Surrender, Virtual Chastity, Porn Star Penis reworked

    which means about 80 minutes listening. Not something for every night, but possible on a few nights a week.

    And it is all about my mistress/wifes pleasure, peace of mind and acceptance.

    Another thing that came from the personalized version of Porn Star Penis is, that the hypnosis effect is much more intense if it is personalized. I cannot say it hit me like a sledgehammer, but it touched something even deeper inside me once I heard the name of my beloved wife in the hypnosis session.

    As said in another thread, it might not be for everyone, it might not work for everyone. But for us it was the right way to go.

    I think I was never so much sexually frustrated, desperate and horny as I am now, in my whole adult life. And we are happy with it.

    As soon as the finances permit, we will get the personalized version of virtual Chastity. Which is an investment for us, because we already
    know that hypnosis works for me.

    Which might also point to something else. If it works, then the damage that could be done by an "incompatible" Hypnotist is probably bad. Because unlike a bad manufactured "This is the greatest device since XYZ" Device you can not just take the hypnosis file "off" again once it works. We were lucky with the Hypnotist we picked. But there is quite a few around. So I recommend to listen to any file in advance fast and with lots of distraction so the hypnosis does not work. Just to check whether the "medicine" is really what you wanted.
     
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    i agree with your ideas...i want to add you as a friend...thanks!
     
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    i agree with you...would like to add you as a friend.
     
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    What an interesting post, thank for that Abraxas67!

    According to your post your sequence also includes a segment called "Porn Star Penis". I looked up Mistress Samba´s website and found out that this segment will make your genitals grow. I am a little skeptic about the use of hypnosis to achieve chastity so I was wondering if you were able to empirically measure any change in your anatomy?

    Thank you very much,
    slavemaid.
     
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    Thx slavemaid,

    well Porn Star Penis, it is more about being able to satisfy my partner.

    Whether this makes my Penis really grow, I don't really care and I am sceptic on this. If it would work that way, then this would probably be one of the biggest markets on this planet. It is not, so ... well I think we can assume it will not work this way .... ;)

    The PSP is from our point of view only to enhance my ability to provide pleasure. I think/assume I have a satisfactory penis, I have the confidence to pleasure my partner. Also it is a modified file, as the original ends, as far as I know, with an ejaculation, so in this File there was a little twist added in the end.

    So PSP is a slight turn around from my initial approach to chastity. Which was to have a useless, limp and tiny penis. Now it is, to have a hard and nice erection for my partner without the ability to cum.


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    Maybe some other people have also used this "cheat" once in a while. Well I did. I used to massage my prostate to provide myself with some relief once in a while.

    But the last few nights I had to learn that this does not work anymore. I tried electro milking and prostate massage. All I was able to achieve was a few drops of clear fluid.

    I am feeling emotionally very delicate at the moment as I think I am starting to realize that I really cannot do ANYTHING anymore to relief myself. And sitting here with a rock hard erection in my pants and knowing that there is only the hope that my partner will allow me this weekend finally a relief is. Well disturbing and exciting.

    Abraxas
     
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    You are a male,

    You either fuck about or waste body strength playing with it.

    You need a full beltmetal neosteel.

    This gives her controland you get the benefit of penis restriction. And you cannot masterbate all you can do is muscle contractions to ejeculate and be punished for so doing.

    Mind control works in hypnosis not real life
     
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