Locked up and now I wanna be her slave help!

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    #1 lockedjoy, Apr 28, 2016
    Ok so here is what's going on . I brought the chastity thing to the table years ago to my wife . She got on board slowly when we started with a cb3000 with points of intrigue . We have now moved onto a mature metal jailbird " big shout out to mistress mm and William " they have customer service like no other .. Anyways I'm now locked with no chance of getting out . Over the last few weeks I have become very very in want of living like a slave to my wife .. I.e. Collar cuffs sleeping bound but everytime I try to express this she tells me that she's ok with what we have and doesn't need extras .. I really don't think of it as extras .. Anyone have an idea's or options for me ?? I open all input..
     
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    #2 rhodry04, Apr 28, 2016
    Well it sounds like she has what she wants and is comfortable with it. You may want to be her slave but if she is good for now, then she is good for now.
    A slaves first order is obey your Mistress.
    The long and short is be happy with what you have and just enjoy!!
     
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    #3 Sunny, Apr 28, 2016
    I think you should give her some time to think about your ideas
     
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    #4 lockedjoy, Apr 28, 2016
    Ok good advice and yes she is happy with things and as she always says to me .. You asked for this . So maybe I should just step back and give it time kinda like when I approached the idea of her locking me up.
     
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    #5 Jasmic68, Apr 28, 2016
    Is it all about her or is it all about you?
     
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    #6 Lockedwithlove, Apr 29, 2016
    You have to go about it at her pace or else you might make her back off from chastity kink altogether. A lot of us are/were the same way. In the beginning I was always trying to push my agenda on my mistress, yes the things I wanted were truly things a submissive would want but it wasn't what my mistress wanted. A good rule of thumb would be to bring up your desires to your mistress and let her think on it. Then if it's something that you really want, wait 6 months then bring it up again. Maybe she'll be more willing at that point the further you both dive into male chastity. My mistress told me that there is lots of good to come for me but I must be patient and give her more time to expand into her role. Remember, we've all (men) been researching chastity and associated kinks and watching porn and the majority of our keyholders haven't done either. So remember, you gave her the keys, you need to go at her pace, there is nothing wrong with being encouraging of new things but don't be pushy about or you're just going to walk yourself backwards.
     
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    #7 lockedjoy, Apr 29, 2016
    Very good advice I see what your saying and your oh so correct .. I appreciate all of you taking time to give me a little direction . And yes I don't want to push her away from the chastity kink at all . However to be honest I believe she loves it more then me now .. And she's told me before that I'm locked for life learn to absolutely love it because its lifestyle now not play..
     
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    #8 Jasmic68, Apr 29, 2016
    By the way this doesn't really belong in this section of the forum. This is the study where we are supposed to make suggestions for how to improve the forum or report issues with it.
     
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