Locked for a year

So, thought I'd write something of my chastity experience so far and introduce my current journey

I have a number of cheapish Chinese metal devices and have been playing on and off for a few years by myself, sharing my experiences of self locking with my wonderful kinky best friend (who cannot understand why I would do such a thing!)

We got talking about how I keep the keys out of reach (8 digit code safe + timer app) and she was worried about risk of bushfire and me losing all the keys, so I suggested she hold them all in her safe for me, leaving me one in my safe, locked with a code that she knows that I dont. I have a copy of the code on a timer app on my phone, so until then, I'd be locked, she has all the keys to keep me safe and honest and in an emergency, she could message me the code. She loved the idea!

I set the timer for a month to do locktober, but somewhere along the way I must have accidentally deleted the lock, leaving me kind of at her mercy.

When I told her, the response was along the lines of 'well thats quite the predicament you're in then isn't it' and that was the end of the conversation. Which was kind of scary real.

And so it went on and I did Lock-tober and No-vember and a few weeks before Christmas, she said I deserved a Christmas present.. and true to her word, she messaged me the key code on Christmas eve.

I relocked on Christmas Day, deleted the code again (8 digits, I cant remember it!) but this time with no timer or anything and we carried on. We spoke of a much longer session to make it feel properly real and she said she'd consider it and discuss it over dinner, but Covid19 spoiled that party.

Anyways, fast forward to late March I think and she asks if I want to be let out at Easter - I said, well, maybe we could do longer like we were talking about.. like Christmas - 12 months locked. She was shocked I would want to do such a thing, but then when she says ok and I ask ok to confirm it, she messages me:

I didn't ask for you to confirm it was ok, its done, it has to be ok
it's funny how you thought you had a say to begin with
Christmas. No refunds, no excuses

So here I am, day 133 locked in this little steel cage (as per my profile pic) which fits very closely and doesn't allow for any interest or excitement and I really cant wriggle out the back either.

My best friend has my (or her, as she says) keys and I have a long way to go..

She always did say 'be careful what you wish for'
Looks like I'm getting my wish, like it or not.

 

ahahah! boom tish!
The year of the locked up trouser snake in the Chinese calendar...lucky for some, unlucky for others

 

no, we are not lovers. We are just very good, very deviant and highly inappropriate friends

 

It is entertaining! Shes a real gem, a very unexpected light in my life.

 

I dont think so from either side - we've never come close to that being a thing, never spoken about it and in any case, our personal circumstances dont allow for it.

Also I dont think that just because she's female, she's something that should be 'converted' into a conquest.. Pretty sure she feels the same way about me lol!

 

Day 155. Still locked. There was some discussion a couple of weeks ago of some kind of trade - an unlock early traded for much longer locked up, or some random chance thing, but that never materialised as life got in the way before we could finish talking about it. Probably for the best.

So I carry on - 5 months in - almost half way. I think my friend has kinda forgotten about it, which is good (no stress for her) but also difficult for me as I'm just going to have to tough it out - but that was what I asked for...so I guess I'm on track.

Am saving for a Lori cage as I want something more secure and personal beyond this year.

On a side note, anyone know where I can buy the Burg Watcher furniture locks in Australia? - I really want to replace the crappy one that came with this device...

 

it's absolutely awesome. we're both desperate for things to return to normal so we can go out to some of our favourite fetish events again - looking like things might me almost back to normal here in a little over a week, so fingers crossed!

She hasn't forgotten - we were messaging about something or other last night and she had to slip in a 'well of course you cant do that' I think she's feeling sorry for me, I need to convince her to add a month to the end date every time she's even tempted to unlock it early! LOL

 

she's the best. for a million other reasons. and this one.

 

every kinky person needs a partner in crime - lovers or not, it's that instant ability to corrupt every conversation or situation with nothing more than a look

 

One can only hope! Every Christmas my gift is an extra 12 months...

 

It's the half way point for me - 6 months locked up without a break. not unlocked once.

Yes, I can orgasm in the cage with enough effort and time and discomfort, but its a miserable experience really and I not something that I'll repeat. It ends up leaving marks and small bruises as my cage is pretty small - pretty much 100% filled when flaccid and doesn't allow much if any of the way of embiggening - I'm a grower, so that kinda screws that, as it were

The journey so far has been largely ok - that few weeks up front was pretty difficult (although that was just a day off from 4 months from before that...) and the rest has been ok. Some difficult weeks when my sex drive has been high and the small cage has driven me nuts, and some easy weeks where I've not really given it a second thought.

So 6 months to go. I don't see this being any harder (lol) than the first 6 months. Nothing in terms of my relationship/keyholder dynamic is likely to change I dont think, so it's just a matter of grinding it out.

What will come after that (apart from me, possibly) I am not sure. Maybe something more permanent - I dont like that term - perpetual is better - An arrangement with no end date, just a strictly emergencies only option perhaps.

 

Yes, I know what you mean, it's very unusual to have a year like this - corona has been a useful idiot to me and cancelled all travel plans that would have probably needed an unlock. I did have to do a medical with urine sample for drug testing with it locked on, which wasn't in the plan, but when one has no keys and a very definite agreement, one must live and die by the proverbial sword, as it were.

No, she's not on here - I'm not sure I'd be wanting her to get any ideas from you lot LOL!
(although the masochist part of me is tempted to plant that seed...)