To all the timid “vanilla” wives out there, I was one of them. My husband and I have been trying out the chastity lifestyle one and off for about a year and a half. He was the one who initiated it. He has always been the more dominant one in near every aspect of our life. Over the past 6 years like any relationship things have shifted and changed along the way. Some were good changes, while some were negative. When we first got together I was having some serious anxiety issues, but he stuck with me through it. Fast forward three years we got married. Unfortunately our sex life and general intimacy was awful. I will be the first to admit I was constantly pushing him away. All the reasons… oh I don’t look good enough, I’m bloated, I didn’t shave my legs, and lastly… just not really having a high sex drive and not caring about it. As anyone could guess, it took a toll on the relationship. Our chastity journey has been a long one. It sounds like it takes quite a while with most couples. But, here I am this week telling you all, lock up your man! It has been the best thing that has happened to us in a long time. I am now holding both sets of keys. One of which is hanging around my neck as a constant reminder for him. This past week was our anniversary. I surprised him and took him to Sybaris, where you have your own private pool. We had a fantastic time. Skinny dipping (which is unheard of for me) and denying his orgasms TWICE in one day. So a big thanks to his dick being locked up, it brings up closer together. To all those wives out there. I highly recommend it. Yes, I still do not fully understand and still find it a bit odd at times. But I am willing to do something “odd” if it is beneficial to both him and I. If you’re worried about being vanilla so am I. (Or always thought I was). I am the one the dresses rather modestly, works a normal full time job, and lives in the country with my husband and two dogs. I guess I had something hiding in me? Maybe you do too…
What a great post, thank you for taking the time to post that for others to read. I am glad to hear you are enjoying this journey.
Very nice post. My wife had "something hiding" in her, too, and loved it as soon as she saw it on me.
So good to hear from the ladies side of the coin. My Wife too, was very vanilla, whom had never even heard of male chastity when I first brought up the subject. When more from the female side of the aisle realize the benefits that may arise for the both of you (not that he will be rising to anything once he's locked) the more women may become interested and involved with the chastity lifestyle. We have found communication is the key, with all relationships, no matter how they proceed with their lives together. I do know this, at this point in time my Wife would never go back to vanilla. All the best to you @TimidKeyHolder as you move forward with your man in chastity. Oh and welcome to the Mansion. I hope you keep us up to date on your journey into the lifestyle.