Loaning HIM out?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by Dogchasecats, Nov 1, 2018.

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would you lend him out? Would you like to be lended out?

  1. Yes I would lend him out.

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  2. Yes I would like to be lent out

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  3. No I would never lend him out

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  4. No I would not like to be lent out

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  5. It doesn’t matter what I think because I just have to do what I am told to do

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    So I was telling him a story about how my friend loaned out her husband to her friend (female) who had not had sex in a long time. He said “don’t you loan me out”. I straitened him out right away since he gave up his athority to me I could do whatever I wanted.
    He apologized. The thing is I really don’t want to lend him out so I won’t. However I read on the forum here where a keyholder did lend out her man while he was caged and he had to do a few chores and paint her toenails. Has this sort of thing ever come up? Is there an exchange for this that is safe? Would men want to be loaned out to another keyholder?
     
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    My wife would never loan me out, so that's that.

    I do have fantasies of being loaned out while locked and directed to clean her home and then bathe and orally serve her to multiple pleasures before being returned to my wife. But that's just a fantasy.
     
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    Rectrix has the perfect fantasy, but like him just fantasy, don’t see it happening to me in this lifetime
     
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    Oh my, that is a fantasy I often have. It goes along with a CFNM one I have. To be loaned out to one of my sister-in-laws for a day to clean and do chores in just my panties or nude would be amazing.
    If my wife decided she wanted it, I'm sure it would, and I'd really have no say in the matter. She hasn't done it, and I honestly couldn't say if she would. Kind of a scary thought. She totally surprised me a few weeks ago by sending me to the doctor caged and in panties. Once she decided to do that there was no way I was going to talk her out of it....I was shocked.
     
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    I don't think she'd do it, but if she wanted to, I think I'd enjoy it.

    How to make that work relationship-wise... Hmmmm.
     
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    My wife did the same to me a few months back. Very embarrassing but I did well with it and my doctor acted like it was normal.
     
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    My wife would probably not loan me out. I cant say 100% that she wouldn't. I dont think I would want to but if she told me to I would. Just because she wanted it.
     
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    My wife and my keyholder are two different women, but I wouldn't call it "loaned out" as such. When the three of us are together, we behave as 3 best friends. Individually, it's different, in that I am my keyholders kink partner and essentially manservant in our private time. It's hard to explain, as we are a semi-poly sort of arrangement, but neither would loan me out to another. There wouldn't be any kink/chastity if we weren't already best friends and it evolved over about a decade.
     
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    As he is locked up, I would recommend if you did have him get a strap-on attachment, and then tell him failure to make her "orgasm" would result in severe punishment. As for your friend, I would tell her the most important thing is honesty and trust, so she has to share the intimate acts they achieved together or secretly film it.

    Now, if he is successful, I would applaud him for his service, but the act of being unfaithful to you requires a very large punishment in return. If pain is in your toolbox, something extra strong based upon the orgasms she had. Modify for service, humilation, longer chastity (e.g. she came 4x so guess what ... you just gave up your next 4 releases.)
     
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    My Lovely Wife has done this to me, or should I say for me, on a few occasions it has been an exciting experience for me and to the ladies that I was loaned to.
    It does require a lot of trust between everyone involved and rules that everyone needs to respect and follow. Rules like not unlocking me or allowing me to cum would be nice to be broken once in awhile.
     
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    Wow! Sounds like if your wife has someone she trusts she just might very well be able to loan you out!!!
     
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    Sounds like a wonderful dynamic!
     
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    Providing the male is caged I see nothing wrong with this approach.
     
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    My Girlfriend has a list of people who are allowed to demand I orally please them whenever they want this list consist of both men and women we do have a set of rules to follow the men are also allowed to mount me if they choose.
     
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    My wife's biggest fantasy is to loan me out to a couple of guys ....fantasy and reality are very different though ..shame because we would both enjoy it
     
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    I'd like to nominate this as the hottest Thread of the day. Maybe the week :+1:
     
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    Mistress has loaned me out, caged and in lingerie, to her sister. It was mainly to humiliate me after She told her sister (now called "Sistress") about my chastity and feminization. I did some domestic chores and laundry, etc while at Her house in lingerie and heels. (Mistress was at work). She teased me quite a bit about how She had noticed me watching her over the years and had me confess how much I adored her boobs, etc. There was nothing sexual, but I found the personal discussion pretty humiliating and embarrassing. Has only happened once, but She now is given my key whenever Mistress has to go out of town on business. - just in case its needed.
     
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    I would love to be loaned out as a locked slave, but I dont think that would happen anytime soon.
    I always do what ever is requested
     
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    Just about every guy here is thinking "Yes please", but they are also imagining being lent out to the keyholder's hottest friend. Now think of the unattractive friends she has. Are you still interested? How about that one friend who hates you and you hate her?

    You are totally vulnerable. This is what makes it hot, but also terrifying. I wonder how eager everyone would be once she calls your bluff. I image being so turned on that I might have trouble walking.

    "Susan has the key, but she doesn't know what it's for. I want you to go tell her what it is, and then find a way to earn it back. She's your keyholder until she decides that she wants to give you up. Make sure you tell her that."
     
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    Is he your slave or your partner? Because you're acting like he's a slave.
     
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    I would thoroughly enjoy it. I am not sure if my wife would want to loan me out. The only person I can think of that she might loan me to is a close friend that used to be part of our triad a long time ago when I was dominant. But, I am not sure that my KH would see much benefit to it unless I was thoroughly annoying and she needed her space:) I think my KH knows it would be way more titillating for me to go and serve her best friend while locked than for her.
     
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    OMG that’s wild- sistress!! Wow!!
     
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    That is exactly what I thought when I offered Isabell to have sex with my BF on his bday. He was to be caged, and She was told about it. I wanted Her to decide if He gets unlocked on that night, but I warned Her, He makes love the best when He's locked.

    That was 3 months ago, our relationship with Isabell is getting stronger and more passionate. She can use Him whenever She whishes, and She turned out to be pretty dominant. Just to say, He was never unlocked when She was around.
     
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    How lucky you are! My Mistress wants to loan me out to a dominate male for the weekend! Panties and collar only. I would do whatever pleases my Mistress. I have no desire to serve any other women for i have found my calling to serve my Goddess and feel everything ive ever told her on how much i luv and desire to serve only her would be a lie. So i would take whatever punishment she decided. if she ever asked me to touch another woman because i would be disobedient!
     
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    First off to Submissive- Happy Birthday
    What’s in store for you today?
    Second, to you and Lee; getting loaned out must be an awesome experience but to a dominant man must be off the charts. Very wonderful to have women that would do that to you both!
     
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