I came home last night and my eight year old daughter was wearing old house keys on a necklace. I asked what that was about, she said oh it's just my necklace. My wife and I just looked at each other and shared a little internal laugh. To anyone else it wouldn't be funny. Love how cute and innocent kids are, hoping to keep mine that way as long as possible.
No. They were just play keys. Old house keys. But we found it amusing that she is wearing keys on a necklace. My children have absolutely zero involvement in my kinks.
I love to hear about your joy in the innocence of your child. I hope and pray you savor, protect, cherish her will all of your heart and might.
I would delete this thread. I know you didn't mean anything bad by it, but the headline is ew. "Keyholder" is an adult term in this group, referring to a very specific adult activity.
My homeschooling wife does an amazing job of fostering their imaginations. Not knocking those that rely on phones, tablets, or TV watching for thier kids but we do our absolute best to minimize screen time. They each have an old cell phone that are primarily used for podcast or audio book listening. They like to listen and color or draw. Helps them relax and wind down. Very minimal electronic toys (batteries suck!). Dollhouses, castles and legos are a big hit right now.
Thank you. I've struggled with being kinky. It's wrecked relationships in the past and almost my current marriage. Where did these feelings come from? Why am I like this? Was there a trigger point in my childhood? I don't want to shelter my kids, but I also don't want them to grow up to fast.
It kind of depends on where the kink is coming from. Is it out of desperation or need? Or is it out of fun, excitement? Kinks can be a great way of embracing your flaws. Take small penis humiliation. At the root of it, it is about insecurity not necessarily about the penis size. If it is done right, you can turn your insecurities in to something fun and in turn accept who you are. The same principles could be applied to children. If they are being or feel compared to other children in a less than way, you can turn/flip things around, embrace and have fun with their differences.