Which is less ”enjoyable” ruined orgasm: locked into device and ruined with a vibrator or abandoned orgasm without device or ring giving any sensation? Would like to hear people’s opinions. The former is much more humiliating, but sometimes I wonder if cage gives additional sensation because cock is pressured in the tube instead of feeling any sensation at all.
It's exactly af you said, @lyberg. Due to the squeezing pressure my cage gives me during a climax, my Keyholder Wife no longer counts caged climaxes as "ruined". When She wants to give me an unenjoyable/ruined climax, it's always hands-free (or "contact-less" in today's jargon) and that satisfies Her intention for sure. asa
Abandoned is more enjoyable than ruined. I distinguish the latter as a no-contraction release of a steam of not-quite-semen that carries no orgasmic sensation; it feels essentially like urination. It is easily perceptible to the ejaculator as a distinct experience from orgasm, and does not relieve the urge to orgasm or reset the refractory period. An in-between is a blocked orgasm, with the urethra held shut as close to the body as possible. The contractions are uncomfortable in a way that nearly eclipses the orgasm, and the retrograde ejaculation reduces the feeling of completion.
Now it has become routine that after eating my KH to orgasm, I have to keeppkeep the wand with vibration to her pussy , legs closed. I have to press my caged cock and balls over it and lay on her top.. By that I cumicum in less than 30secs through cage.
Sounds interesting, describe more how this works? Cage on, freezer block against the cage, and vibrator on the prostate? How does the ice change the sensation?
The spoiled orgasm is worse for me. She doesn't do just abandonment, sometimes she slaps me hard on the bollocks or cock which sort of tells the body to stop what its doing and any ejaculate ceases and you penis bobs not knowing what's going on before wilting. The other trick she has is to put her thumb over the end and block anything coming out - that works quite well too. The body thinks you've had an orgasm, your eyes and mind tells you that you haven't and you've still got that pent up frustrated feeling. The forced orgasm from a vibrator on the cage ends up messy and she generally does it whilst I'm clothed and its similiar to the "thumb plug" just described.
The procedure is as follows: Lying face down on the massage table with a cilindrical cushion ( aprox 12x40 inches) so the bottom is high in the air and the caged penis and testicles hanging down. Instead of the freezer block all is submerged in a small bucket full of water and frappe ice for several minutes,until you literally feel nothing,whatever the size of the cage ,the shrinkage makes it to be oversized. Instead of the vibrator ,the Masseuse uses two fingers to stimulate the prostate. Depending on her mood and/or what she and my KH/Wife have agreed upon the technique can vary to make it last a shorter or longer time. In the latter case ,if needed all is submerged again in ice. The ice accomplishes the objective of removing all sensation from the penis,you are 100% anally focused and have no idea of when and how much fluid is being extracted.
Absolutely! The struggle between great pain and the urge to achieve orgasm. Unbearable pain,but you must make the greatest effort to go beyond the brink,but pleasure remains not even for the whole of the very first pumping as the spikes dig in deeper and make the pain even worse,beyond imagination,you forget about your orgasm,the only wish is for the erection to recede and return to the previous level of pain.As not a second pumping happens,semen flows like lava producing no sensation! What happend? You are drained,suffered inmensely,are frustrated and yes...... You had a full orgasm lasting one second!Lol
Milking while in the pillory is the worst for me. I’m confined, stuck bent over, her finger probing my ass, and watching the fluid come out of my cock With no enjoyment. Even worse is when her girl friend is there watching and commenting at my discomfort.
The worst or should i say the best is when i have been released for milking, getting all excited as lotion is lathered all over my cock, then only to be told it is numbing cream, not sure how to describe it, other than almost like an out of body experience when done properly. Once i was blindfolded just the lotion was applied, and then removed after i was milked, other than the odd tap to my thigh during the milking i felt nothing. So to suddenly see the pool of semen in front of me was quite bizarre really. Later on once back in chastity i was shown a video of it to prove it actually happened.
I haven't had a ruined O in the cage with M yet but had one playing solo before I met M. The feeling of the cage made it intense yet at the same time frustrating. M likes me fully accessible during most of our playtime and she does enjoy edging me. The game is to see if I can avoid releasing before she is done playing with her boy toy. If I do release it is ruined and I clean it up. I find ruined orgasms strange. They take some pressure off like milking but leave me hot and bothered still and shortly thereafter it's like it never happened. M can keep me in a state of almost constant arousal this way. It is really hard to day which is better or worse as they are all situation specific. I guess it depends on what else is going on too.
I sometimes get a little enjoyment from a ruined orgasm, but after I feel a sub drop, lose energy and my wife must give me an attitude adjustment.
When I was allowed a ruined orgasm there was no pleasure at all, my madam would edge for a while, until I reached the limit, of a 9 or just above, then she would keep stimulating me, until she felt that twitch. then there would be nothing for 5 to 10 seconds, then I would just spurt with no feeling whatsoever! So sensation, nothing, it was less feeling than when I went to urinate!