Lesbian KH for heterosexual male?

hi there, I’m intrigued by the idea of being locked and having my sexual desire managed by and redirected to serve the goals of a female KH. The thought occurs to me-are there any heterosexual males with lesbian KH? I realise this sounds like a twist to a stereotypical straight guy’s liking of lesbian porn, but why not if it worked for both parties? What’s the psychological impact for the locked male? Interested in any replies. Thanks

 

To answer my own Q somewhat I know that if I agreed to be locked I’d only do so for someone who was prepared to invest the emotional labour described by Ms King in a separate thread. I don’t see why a lesbian KH would want to do that unless she faked it which would be SAD AND BAD!

 

In what sense am I disrespecting lesbians? I asked a question and part answered it myself. You have supplied another plausible scenario. Where is the disrespect? What makes you think I wouldn’t be interested in the whole person? What makes you think I wouldn’t earn trust? I did say I wanted a strong emotional connection; I wrote the post in the 5 minutes I had at the start of my day. I am glad you didn’t flame me because I think it would have been based on a misunderstanding. Still, glad to get your perspective and I will reflect further on what you say.

 

Fair enough, I think the lesson for me is not to rush posts. Obviously I don’t want to have to recite platitudes about respect and being interested in the whole person every time I post (imagine a standard asterisked footnote covering all bases..) because emotional connection is about anything but platitudes.
Interestingly I think time, or lack of it, is the common factor here. The more time invested in communication the better.
By the way I’m a sensitive soul so thanks for your “sorry” but it wasn’t necessary because you didn’t flame me.

 

Thanks L-u-c-y for the link. The online possibility raised by you in that other thread (out of necessity in a (forlorn attempt) to put off male assholes) is an interesting “middle ground” between the lack of rationale for a lesbian KH to invest any great emotional labour into a (decent) male lockee on the one hand and the wish by him for an emotional connection.

Put differently by definition any connection would be by reference to 1 kinkiness (clearly the potential exists for mutuality there) and 2 emotion (open question whether both parties find a satisfying compromise). The one thing ruled out would be mutual sexuality, and that would be less humiliating for the male than with a heterosexual KH who did not reciprocate the male’s sexual desire for her.

To the extent one of the male’s kinks is erotic humiliation that would be a shame for him, but then again, that could be the price he needs to pay to persuade the lesbian KH to pay any attention to him. Denial is erotic!