Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by Beach-bum, May 3, 2018.
Tomorrow in go into my new Holy Trainer. Should I enjoy my last night of freedom?
Is anyone putting you into it or are you self-locking?? If you have a KH then it is her prerogative.
If you're self-locking, how long do you envisage being locked for? Anything less than a month and I would say no full orgasm. More than a month, then treat yourself, one last time...
I think it is appropriate that the soon to be keyholder grant you one full orgasm before going under lock and key.
Depending on how often you orgasm already, if you were like me and cumming at least once per day, you will be fine for the first 48 hours. on day three you will start to get the craving and after a week you will have the mindset of only wanting to please your KH.
Also, it is important to make sure your body will be ok with the device. if you feel any pain and discomfort, Remove it for a bit and wait.
I am wearing a HT myself. it is a very sturdy device.
One tip I will suggest that helps with putting on the device is having two items. Lube and pantyhose. Use a drop of lube to grease the inside of the base ring so you can slide your sack easily through the hole. Next, vet a cheap pair of pantyhose from the store, cut one leg off and cut it so you have only 8 inches. stick the closed end of the hose into the tube and put your member into the stocking, then pull the stocking out the other end of the tube and you will slide in easily. put the lock in and you are set.
I also after showering out a drop of lube on the bottom of my sack above the ring after drying for a shower. this will help if you are constantly sitting and standing because if that small area gets dry then it will cause discomfort.
Last thing, DO NOT leave the base ring on and get hard without the tube on. The way the ring is designed without the tube attached has some very sharp points at the top. I found out the hard way that a hard dick and those plastic points hurt like hell. So if your KH is giving you a teasing session and you are bound, make sure she removes both pieces at the same time.
Hope you like the HT, I have been in mine for over a month and love it.
Great stuff it is always awkward putting on! Have been chatting to a keyholder and she wants me to hold the keys till comfortable. Then she will decide the next step. Online at first then meeting up.
She has said up to me on my last night, I might as well make the most of it she said.
She want me to hold the keys as last time, just over a year ago I got the ring sizing wrong and ended up in a lot of pain and couldn’t get keys overnight.
well, make it last....
@jb123 great advice! Got the Holy Trainer small on now and oh boy it is small but hope that means more comfortable.
@LesterBallard the lady I had been chatting to on fetlife told me to have a ruined orgasm on my last night, I actually think that was the worst option!
one other piece of advice I can give is when cleaning. make sure all soap is rinsed off in the tube when showering. I left a big drop of soap on the shaft and let it sit over night. the next day it was itching like crazy and when Mrs. B let me out to inspect it was very red. soap just sitting on your skin will cause the skin to dry out. combine that with your meat shoved in a piece of plastic is a bad combination. I was left unlocked for two days to heal.
@jb123 A little worried it’s not sat close to body. Possibly the small cage. But it feels more secure than my last cage a stainless steel birdcage. Will see how it feels over night. No chance of any stimulation it truly is encased. What’s the longest you’ve worn?
@jb123 what do you find is the best underwear? I wear cycling shorts usually. But it’s been suggested I get something more humiliating.
Boxer briefs are my usual day to day choice. Mrs. B is not into feminization so women's garments are not for me.
I would suggest something with support but also with enough room to breath.
oh and cue tips will become your best friend.
Not the best for going to the toilet this device. Seem to be comfortable now.
Do you get any ball slippage? This feels super secure but you never can tell.
no, I'm wearing a 50mm ring and has never happened.
First night body adjustment now. Doesn’t feel too bad and the small I believe helps less place to grow is less pain.
lol, wait till the morning.
Lol! OMG nocturnal erections are going to take some getting used to! It wants to pull my balls off. I got almost hard but no sensation capable through the thick plastic just frustration! But I’m up bright and early.
I’m going cycling later wish me luck!
It’s funny how once locked the keyholder goes from we’ll try locking for week to I haven’t decided when you’ll be allowed out. Lol
Yes I know, brilliant isn't it!
Then she hints at in a few days you’ll be gagging and begging you had better be good. She’s playing games lol, letting me know it’s her decision from now on.
If you go through the shoe dept, there are the little nylon booties . These are used to try on shoe for folks without socks on. Just grab a few of those. it's what we do. Hope this helps
Yes I came across those and got some