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    Noooooooooooo ty, that's a bit extreme even for my kinky doings.

    Right now I'm out of my cock cage and enjoying the relaxing feelings of freedom. Fortunately no skin problems or rashes. However as soon as I removed the ring my ball sack shrunk down to the size of a prune and is very, very wrinkled. I'm going to wait a little longer than planned to lock it up again.

    The cage was a royal mess! When I go out I always spray some Summers Eve antiperspirant/deodorant down there (regular underarm deodorant STINGS!), in the fold of my gut and in the cups of my bra. I'm sure that spray is the bulk of what was on the ring and underside of the tube. Soaking in hot water with some dish detergent for an hourish and all the parts cleaned up very well. Everything is all squeaky clean, dried and polished ready for another month of confinement.

    As soon as my balls drop down again, hopefully late this afternoon or early evening I'll relock the chastity tube on my dick assuming the chastity gods give me the fortitude to go through with the lockup.

    Film at eleven.
     
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    An additional step we added...
    My Wife keeps the key on a necklace that also has two other charms of a Heart Lock & Key - only somewhat camouflages the key but also accentuates what it represents :)

    My Wife is very diligent about wearing the key/necklace for work and when going out but would hang up the necklace on Her wall hook rack with other jeweler; while home it would be possible for me to briefly grab the key, unlock, put the key back and go on my merry way...
    Now granted I asked to be caged and love being controlled but don't like the ability of being able to sneak the key; not that I would, it's more of a psychological thing.

    We've added a Simplex style hide-a-key lock box to the equation.
    https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0186MG01Q?psc=1
    When my Wife takes off Her necklace/key while home she'll lock it in the box - it does add an additional psychological aspect that's fun...:D

    I had also considered adding a finger print scanner / lock to Her closet cabinet just make it a very simple process of locking and I thought it would be a very much a cool factor... my Wife didn't care for the finger print scanner and since we already had the key box we went that route - She says it's no big deal entering four numbers every time.
    https://www.aliexpress.com/item/G10...2792154635.html?spm=2114.40010708.4.13.RdIeKV
     
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    It's so important that even the methods be submitted to the female of the relationship.
     
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    thats an excellent idea!
     
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    I'd just have to mess with that at every possible opportunity .. Only 4 numbers... even with ten. I would not want to take the key out just to be able to open the box.
    But then I would not feel that I was being fully controlled which is something I really appreciate.
    I've no idea how much trouble or what kind I'd have got into with any of my past partners if I had opened that key box but the curiosity and challenge would be irresistable.
     
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    I agree, there are only 24 permutations for four digits.
    i agree with filltee, there are only 24 permutations for four digits. The only thing working against me would be my lack of patience.
     
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    Vinny Locked up again. Starting year 6.

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    What do you do about an emergency key or do you just hope nothing happens?
     
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    My emergency key was, and it still is, in a clear see through perspex or hard acrylic box I got online and has to be broken to access the key.
     
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    My Queen and I use plastic strips with unique serial number and they are excellent solution for many things and a unique solution for lots of cases. In my opinion EVERYONE who wants to consider himself serious into chastity MUST HAVE plastic numbered locks.
    Both my Queen and I are Greeks. However we are forced to live in different countries due to professional reasons. My wife is a doctor in Greece and I am a General Manager for a Greek shipowner company , in the company's filial in Romania. Though she's the refined sweet beautiful lady doctor and I am the determined tough manager , SHE is my Queen and she owns my dick , controlling her "property" by a chastity device. These details are important to make you understand my following point of why the plastic numbered strips are necessary for a serious keyholding.
    You do realize the practical problems arising from the way of locking the devise , and securing that this is locked and not opened without the Queen's permission.
    First of all , yes. These locks are not securing that they cannot open. They are just plastic strips that can break. However the main point is exactly to prove that they have not been tampered , or you explain to the key-holder , in my case to my Queen. And they WILL show if tampered believe me. Have in mind that we use the same system in sealing the containers , containing and transporting goods of great value through ships , trucks and cranes all over the world and through custom's controlled areas.
    So let me proceed.
    Living most time in different countries , arises the practical matter of the key. Makes impossible to use one with a key. Who's going to hold it and how secure or practical will it be?? I keep the key , I can open at all times. My Queen keeps the key?? What happens in an emergency?? So the numbered strips ARE the BEST SOLUTION. I lock device with one in front of her , if together , or by video-call if not together , during which I close-up in camera the seal number and lock in front of her. Then during same video-call I take close pictures of the area , making sure to be clearly visible the seal number. Then and at all times I am obliged to show on camera , if requested , that the seal number is same as the initial one in the picture. If alone directly by pulling down clothes and presenting , if not , by maintaining open the video-call till I get in a place with privacy (toilet etc) where I can show. And/or every fixed hour each day to make a new picture of the seal and send , proving that it has not been broken , cut or tampered in any way. Fortunately my Queen does not have such request , but the point is she CAN verify at all moments that device has not been opened and she can be sure that all is going well. And indeed sometimes she did a surprise check : during the video call she told me she wanted to see it and check the seal number.
    Another important thing is the metal detectors in Airports and elsewhere. My job requires many many airport voyages. Living in different countries with my Queen , requires also a lot of traveling by airplanes. This includes a lot of metal detectors.... Metal locks WILL ignite them and they will set the alarm... Imagine afterwords..... While the plastic seals will NEVER trigger the metal detector alarms.
    Furthermore the plastic seals can break and device open much easier , when key-holder decides to , than the metal lock pad.
    Also shower is easier because there are only plastic waterproof materials and not metal components that will get rusty.
    Another important thing , if you are under permanent chastity , in your everyday life , are the noises. The metal lock will hit against the device producing "noises" that can and will betray you. The light plastic seals NEVER , no noises or whatsoever
    Also DISCRETION. The metal lock may almost sure appear on top of your clothes. Will show that "there's something right there..." May almost surely betray you. I have seen it myself showing whilst dressed and had to take permission from my Queen to use devise without lock , something that she agreed , but wasn't happy at all. And I do understand her..... It's her property after all , her asset she want to have control.
    Finally one more thing... Padlock is metallic. Will scrub against the devise and your clothes. They will both be damaged by the lock....
    Hope to have assisted
     
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    I have had excellent success using the "photo time lock" app.
    It was having problems for a while, but has been updated by the author and has been super reliable for me the last few months.

    You set a combination with a masterlock key safe, and take a photo within the app.
    You can have a special code only your keyholder knows to release you when she wants to.
    Or else you have to wait until your set time (days, hours, min) runs down and reveals your combination.
    It's quite easy to take a good photo of the combo, and then lock the lock box and start the app and the only photo is hidden until the time is up.

    Also, you can ADD TIME in the middle, which is what causes my worst frustrations. It seems there is some time in most days where it's fun to fantasize that I'll be locked up longer.

    My wife seems to very much enjoy finding my locked. She really does not enjoy "managing" how lock I should be locked up, so she ust enjoys finding me locked up, and has the choice to fool around with me locked up, or she can enter her code and release me.
     
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    I'm not sure if anyone has mentioned it before but I just started using EmlaLock.com. It is the same as the other online keyholding websites. You upload a picture of a lockbox combination and then wait the required time. This is the first time I have done anything like this but it has been enjoyable. The fact that I can't get out of the cage until the time is up is refreshing.
     
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    As previously mentioned my Goddess @n2toys wears Her key everyday on a necklace that also has a heart/lock and Queen's crown charm.
    When off while at home She would hide it in Her walk-in closet and but recently we did add the fingerprint lock/scanner to the built-in wall cabinet in Her closet - I never searched for the key when She was just hiding it but now that it's locked behind a door with the scanner that's only accessible by Her fingerprint there's something very exciting about knowing where it is but unable to even touch it.

    https://www.aliexpress.com/item/G10...32792154635.html?spm=a2g0s.9042311.0.0.40eeBh
     
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    We recently decided on trying a https://noke.com/pages/individual NOKE padlock as means of my access to my currently deep frozen copy of our key but alas we were unable to figure out how to configure it over the phone.
    But if you do share a roof then this could also be a good means of keeping the key available and yet secure.
     
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    I use Emlalock.com as my KH, just like bodman54.. I love setting it up so that I do not know when I will be released (though I always set a maximum period). I find that especially erotic not knowing. It can be configured with some kind of randomness that I find enticing. One of the settings requires me to play a fixed number of games per day that can add or subtract time from my chastity "sentence".
     
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    Mrs Chaste. Has the key to me safely locked in her keysafe! We had a week away last summer in the UK (so no flying) and for the first time she "forgot" the key. So no freedom for me. We still had fun though.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    I have used emlalock occasionally. Works like this. Face-to-face KH locks whoever in and puts key in lockbox when I have set up a program and got a code for it which I give her the link. She then sets him up with a session to me (a continent away) and which I control and which he doesn't even know who I am. She's deleted the code from her own memory of course, so he has to follow my program and no other way out.
     
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    ohh yes.
    ........
     
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    If this is true, not that I have reason to doubt you, then you are fulfilling a fantasy idea that many of the guys whose partners do wear the key(s) have every day...even nearly all day in some cases.

    Alas many will surely be disappointed to learn that many of these keys are forgotten about pretty much most of the time especially when KH and lockee are not tin the same place.

    Just because your cage frequently if not nearly constantly reminds you of who it is worn for and why don't imagine that all the ladies feel the same about a key they have with them.

    They are just wired different in that respect.
     
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    We keep the key in a real estate lock box and she knows the combination. That way if I need to get the key for some reason and she is not home she can text me the combination.
     
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    Say whatcha want but my mistress Chiannaa texts me a pic of that key often, I sometimes think She's thinking about it more than I am.
     
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    You reading this @Chiannaa ?
     
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    Really... I am very pleased for you.
    Have you heard of the old saying;
    it is the exceptions that prove the rule.

    Well if not ....you have now.
     
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