This is not something I particularly have to worry about because there won't ever be an after chastity, but I see posts of couples starting and it could go either way on whether it will stick. So I guess my question is this. If after experimenting with being a keyholder, knowing you were in charge of sexual activity, as well as all of his...what would you think after you decided it wasn't for you? Would you then constantly wonder if he was pleasuring himself? Would you ask him to refrain without device? Would you expect him to be dominant again? Would you expect some of the "perks" of chastity to remain? What would be going through your mind when you both know the device is off, control is gone, and his behavior turns back to his old self? I would think it would always be in the back of your mind, even though he wore no device before. I know obviously if you're still active here, you actually don't know for sure, but still wonder what your thoughts would be after. For me, I think it would hurt her feelings, and would see it as a personal slight if I stopped wearing it.
I think.....I would want it in the bin. What is it that's wrong with me that that he needs to wear a thing clamped to his genitals in order be turned on by or to pay me some attention?. Am I not enough? Then I would probably become all distracted wondering about that charming helicopter pilot I met at the weekend. The sparkle in his eyes. His obvious financial independence, wit and charm and the way he looked at me. I would bet that he doesn't need anything clamped on his Genitals in order to treat me with some respect. Ugh I expect Nicoftime is engrossed in that porn site thing again or wanking in the garage......... I need a new life.
That sounds about right, I wondered about the aftermath of this through the female mind, that could definitely happen...minus the pilot...and she wouldn't stop holding my key, I'm pretty sure she enjoys this more than me now.
That's a complicated question, why is he in a cock-cage in the first place. Why does a man want to give up something so important to them as sexual activity to a woman they are attracted to? I mean ALL sexual activity. What’s the joke, 50% of men admit to masturbating, the other 50% lie. Handing the keys over to a woman is certainly a sign of his affection to her. Personally, I found out about practical male chastity about 15 years ago and ordered a CB-2000 more as a sexual novelty. I thought it was humorous. Why would a guy do that long-term? Once I found CM, I started reading about chastity relationships and the psychology of men’s emotions related to sex and orgasms. I found it fascinating. Why do I like the thought of male chastity? Not sure I still understand it. Not sure what I could handle. Not sure I would want permanent. To your question about post chastity relationships. Boy, that’s a tough one. If it was part of a serious live-in relationship, I would think that would be tough. It would change the whole dynamic of the household. I would think the couple would have gone through a trial period to see how both partners feel. If it became a “permanent” part of the relationship I would think there is no going back. It would be like a divorce, one person’s idea and not the others.