Keyholder who isn't your partner?

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    #1 subrugbylad, Sep 30, 2018
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    Hi There,

    Anyone had any experience of being in chastity but having a keyholder that isnt your partner? Maybe an online Domme, or an ex partner.

    I did locktober a few years back with my friend holding the keys, as she was giving up smoking and doing Stoptober, so she approached me to hand over the keys to keep her mind occupied. This worked for both of us as I ended up raising £280 for Manchester Womens refuge as collected donations for locktober, she gave up smoking but as she was constantly thinking of ways to tease me her and her boyfriend got closer and she ended up actually conceiving during this October too!

    Humbly,
    Darren
     
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    #2 Finn-egan, Oct 1, 2018
    My keyholder is one of the best friends of my wife and I, although both are technically keyholders, and my wife has veto power of course. The rules and enforcement are up to our friend, and it's her desire to have me in full chastity and denial. It's all a balancing act with this sort of thing, and requires lots of patience and understanding.
     
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    #3 sb90, Oct 1, 2018
    My ex-gf is currently my KH, but she lately got into a new relationship. I expect to loss that chance soon...
     
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    #4 Krissyhuntley, Oct 1, 2018
    I’ve asked a few of my close female friends....none of them worked out, as soon as I would beg they would cave. I have also tried to give my keys to my cousin, who is very much a dominant but it didn’t work because she lives on the other side of the states. If we lived together she would be more than happy to be my kh. I’ve found that having a key holder that doesn’t see your chastity as a priority or even a turn on for them will be a huge let down for you. Of course this is true if your partner isn’t in to it either I guess.
     
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    #5 subrugbylad, Oct 1, 2018
    Think that is a lot of mens fantasies, although I assume she already knew and you just split on good terms, so she keeps you under lock and key?

    Darren
     
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    #6 sb90, Oct 2, 2018
    That's correct, we were already into it when we were together. She became more strict after we splited.
     
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