Keyholder Turn Ons (& maybe one turn-off)

As far as I know there isn't any waning, not that I've spotted anyway! I think that's because neither of us are backwards in coming forwards saying what we want from each other. I tell Ian what I want him to do sexually and he tells me what he wants me to do sexually. Neither of us has said no, at least the first time! Both of us win.

BTW, isn't unmarried the new married?

Jane
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Permanent chastity? So no getting fucked by a real dick for Keyholders? So you think that’s odd for women to not “desire” to give up real cock? So women should have the fantasy of never getting fucked by the man they married. Clearly you have never had a vagina and you have never been a women. Lol

 

So far my wife has really been enjoying getting off without a "real dick". It's been since July, so hardly permanent, however I have no idea how long it will be for. When we exchanged our thoughts on what we both like and dislike about our chastity lifestyle, she wrote "I absolutely love when you get me off with some toys and that I can just go to sleep after without you begging to cum too. It may be selfish, but it feels wonderful." In many ways the lack of a "real dick" has improved her sex life as she is having many more orgasms. I'm not hoping or advocating for permanent chastity. I just realize she has a lot of reasons not to let me cum and I obey her decisions.

 

Just now getting around to responding to this. Slow day at work

There are many turn on's for me in keeping my guy locked.

Turn ons:

1. The longer he's locked, the more doting and submissive he becomes.
2. He asks for things he usually wouldn't ask for if he were unlocked. I'll tease him until he's begging for my strap-on
3. When I'm having a particularly bad day, I can take it out on him and then feel much better afterward.
4. When he's locked and denied, I turn into a Goddess to him...he can't get enough of me and I love that.
5. When he's locked and denied and sees a hot woman his thoughts instantly turn to me since I have locked his most important toy away for my use only.
6. Knowing he's out in public with a cage on my property. If only all his coworkers knew...hehe!
7. Knowing that I have full control over his pleasure and releases.
8. Seeing him so desperate for release and a chance to cum and would do anything for that chance even if it's extremely humiliating and/or embarrassing.
9. Knowing that being with me and being able to explore our kinky sides together has resulted in the best relationship and sex of both of our lives.

and the 1 turn-off:

1. Him being reluctant and even complaining when I tell him to put the cage back on after being granted a full, traditional orgasm with me.

As many of you know, @Thatguyontheinternet and me started our relationship with me as the sub and he as the Dom. It turned around ever so slowly when we decided to dabble in male chastity. I am still figuring out my likes and dislikes, but I am getting better and better at my role and he at his. For example, I had to remove the cage yesterday morning because he has some irritation that I don't think will heal unless he is hanging free. So yesterday, I had him wear a pair of feminine panties made just for men and then restrained/took him when he got home, even gave him a full O. Today, since we only have the one pair of panties the will fit him, I had him wear his base ring, pink boxers and pink socks. Surely not as effective as feminine panties, but shows him that he is still owned.