Hey there ! Sooooo, I'm new to the chastity lifestyle. My boyfriend introduced me to it about 3 months ago and eversince, I've been actively trying to find my place in this lifestyle. Don't get me wrong, I am really excited about this but also kind of ignorant and in need of tips and tricks. My boyfriend introduced me to many new kinks and sex toys, wich I'm thrilled about, and most recently he introduced me to the cage and his sub side. I've been trying many new things playing with the dominant part of me but I feel like I'm at a point where I don't know what else to do. I think I just need more confidence (even if Im generally a really confident girl) and advices. So at the moment, he's away and locked. when he's gonna come back next week he will have spent about 16 days locked (the longest I've made him) and I wanna surprise him with new stuff. Basically, i do spanking, choking, denial (need help on that too tho), anal fuck with the cage on, etc... the basics you know ? I wanna learn of new things I can do to him and how to be stricter and more dominant without feeling silly. he has a lot of material so you can be creative ! I neeeeeed help all advices welcome!
welcome. There's a verified females area. You may wish to get verified and go there for advice. good luck
Yes, as others have said, put your desires and needs first. It is always nice to think of him, but you need to establish a hierarchy since you are now in control. If it pleases you, having him perform oral for you, can both give you pleasure and reinforce how your needs are more important than his, since you'll come but he won't. When it is time for his release, make sure he knows it is at your discretion and he should earn his orgasms. Good luck with your new power.
Welcome to the mansion. Feel free to ask any questions but a deep dive into the forum archive is likely to answer almost any question you may have! Welcome to the lifestyle!
Sounds like you are doing very nicely! I hope it's appreciated! The sky is the limit really. One thing to remember though is that "it's all about you now". Loads of ideas for you to try on our forum. We have some very creative and wicked key holders here. As was said before have a look and participate in the females only section.