1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

Key on anklet/necklace: Who really knows?

Discussion in 'Female led relationships' started by Willywonka, Sep 4, 2016.

  1. Willywonka
    Offline

    Willywonka Member

    Joined:
    Jan 29, 2016
    Messages:
    49
    Likes Received:
    57
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    3:26 PM
    I bought my keyholder a pretty anklet to mount the key for the lock to her (my) cage on. When out in public I am excited to know that other people might see it and know our situation. But I have never seen it on anybody else. Do many people out there (particularly in the UK) really know what it symbolises? And have any of you readers had experience of attention to a key on display? Thanks.
     
  2. AlanThom
    Offline

    AlanThom Hi, I'm Alan.....

    Joined:
    May 28, 2015
    Messages:
    319
    Likes Received:
    322
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    South Tampa Bay Area
    Local Time:
    10:26 AM
    Here in the US, She has gone out many times with her key on the necklace.... parties, lounges, restaurants, veteran clubs.......
     
    Newlover, Jblocked, spider203 and 2 others like this.
  3. Mistress Jules
    Offline

    Mistress Jules Professional Dominatrix and Owner of Lockit
    Staff Member

    Joined:
    Oct 27, 2013
    Messages:
    1,472
    Likes Received:
    3,313
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Female
    Occupation:
    Company Director and Professional Dominatrix
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Scotland
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    3:26 PM
    I am pretty active on the BDSM scene in Scotland especially and many even within the scene had no clue about the key round my neck and what it symbolises.
     
  4. Willywonka
    Offline

    Willywonka Member

    Joined:
    Jan 29, 2016
    Messages:
    49
    Likes Received:
    57
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    3:26 PM
    Thanks for your replies. It would seem that perhaps catching the eye of somebody who knows what kind of frustrated, controlled state I'm in, would be quite a remote possibility then!
     
    Newlover likes this.
  5. frankie teardrop
    Offline

    frankie teardrop Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 3, 2014
    Messages:
    445
    Likes Received:
    352
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Service Industry
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Oz
    Local Time:
    3:26 PM
    The main thing is your KH Mistress and yourself know what it means and therein lies the deep intimacy that exists between you. I'm guessing that most people would have no idea what it signifies but there will be a special few who do and that is what makes the symbolism so profound and meaningful. Watch out for secret 'knowing' smiles whenever you are walking with your Mistress in public. The thought of it makes me tremble!
     
    Newlover and Willywonka like this.
  6. Amoroso
    Offline

    Amoroso Open minded :)

    Joined:
    Jun 29, 2010
    Messages:
    11
    Likes Received:
    51
    Trophy Points:
    23
    Gender:
    Female
    Local Time:
    2:26 PM
    I used to wear my subs key round my neck...I was still in college and lots of people thought I was just being 'odd'... If only they'd known the real reason ;)
     
  7. lockedup66
    Offline

    lockedup66 Mistress. L & Liza

    Joined:
    Jan 10, 2015
    Messages:
    393
    Likes Received:
    2,520
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    10:26 AM
    I wear a key around my ankle and neck ...when ever imagined asked ..it's the key to his Hart
     
  8. Willywonka
    Offline

    Willywonka Member

    Joined:
    Jan 29, 2016
    Messages:
    49
    Likes Received:
    57
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    3:26 PM
    That's what my keyholeder said when her mum asked!
     
    Jblocked and lockedup66 like this.
  9. Wendygirl
    Offline

    Wendygirl To offer advice and keep CM safe and welcoming

    Joined:
    Jul 31, 2013
    Messages:
    3,448
    Likes Received:
    2,409
    Trophy Points:
    153
    Gender:
    Female
    Occupation:
    gardener
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    London
    Local Time:
    3:26 PM
    Trouble is that quite a few woman have keys mostly on a necklace but the odd one or two on an ankle .

    Allways makes me wonder and try to get a good look at the key. Thing is bit difficult to broach the subject!

    Xx Wendy
     
  10. lockit
    Offline

    lockit Advanced Member

    Joined:
    Mar 4, 2010
    Messages:
    1,250
    Likes Received:
    641
    Trophy Points:
    133
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    London
    Local Time:
    3:26 PM
    When we are out with family or friends @Mistress Jules always sits facing me wearing the key round her neck
    I lost count how many times she smiles across at me while she plays with the key, reminding me I am locked.
     
  11. bfg48
    Offline

    bfg48 New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 10, 2016
    Messages:
    4
    Likes Received:
    9
    Trophy Points:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    10:26 AM
    I bought my wife a necklace holding a skeleton key with a heart in the middle of it. Since she wears clothing that reveals a fair amount of cleavage when we go in public (to drive me crazy) The key stays in plain site and conveniently nestled between her girls. I have noticed guys trying to sneak a peak at her which I love, but no one has asked what the key is for....so far! If asked, she would just say something like it was a gift, or a key to my husband's heart, etc; at least for now...

    Not too long ago, I was talking to a fairly attractive woman in her late 40's. She was wearing a similar decorative key. I'm pretty sure she was keeping her man in chastity because the necklace/key just didn't seem to fit with what she was wearing...like she was trying to make a statement with it. I might be wrong, but its more fun to think I was right!
     
  12. xcitedsisssy
    Offline

    xcitedsisssy cd/sissy michelle

    Joined:
    Jun 18, 2008
    Messages:
    1,019
    Likes Received:
    668
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Upper Midwest
    Local Time:
    10:26 AM
    Once when a friend and I were out we went to breakfast. We had to wait for a table and there was another couple waiting also. They came in after us and I noticed the silver key on her necklace immediately. Being sub myself I didn't find it my business to ask if she was a KH. To this day I wish I would have asked her. It is the only time I have ever noticed a key, whether on a necklace, ankle bracelet or wrist.
     
    SubBoy20_14 likes this.
  13. Mistress Meeshell
    Offline

    Mistress Meeshell Active Member

    Joined:
    May 20, 2016
    Messages:
    84
    Likes Received:
    96
    Trophy Points:
    28
    Gender:
    Female
    Local Time:
    10:26 AM
    i wear mine on my neck also and funny that when question i also reply the key to his heart or my heart depends on who it is. when at kink events i see alot of women with keys on there neck or ankle. i have been asked only once so far what the key is for
     
    Jblocked and slave_m like this.
  14. Chastityslave3
    Offline

    Joined:
    Apr 23, 2013
    Messages:
    19
    Likes Received:
    13
    Trophy Points:
    13
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    3:26 PM
    Well I know what a key on a necklace or anklet means, but I've never seen anybody wearing one.
     
  15. chastedolivia
    Offline

    chastedolivia Member

    Joined:
    Nov 19, 2014
    Messages:
    50
    Likes Received:
    59
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Western New York
    Local Time:
    10:26 AM
    I notice keys on necklaces around women's necks every so often. It's always more fun to just assume what they are for.
     
    Mash2214 and Willywonka like this.
  16. Mascara^Snake
    Offline

    Mascara^Snake Ms Amanda

    Joined:
    Aug 3, 2009
    Messages:
    2,964
    Likes Received:
    3,995
    Trophy Points:
    133
    Gender:
    Female
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Scotland
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    3:26 PM
    I think it best that you have your key threaded onto an eternity collar around your own neck.
     
    LockedByHer90, slave_m and PinkFreud like this.
  17. allaboutHer
    Offline

    allaboutHer Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Feb 19, 2012
    Messages:
    453
    Likes Received:
    498
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    10:26 AM
    Hello All.

    My Wife/Mistress/Keyholder sports several dainty, different jewelry quality skeleton keys on necklaces I have purchased her depending upon what she is wearing. I also found a pair of very nice, smallish, dangly silver skeleton key earings which just peak from beneath the hairline of her short wedge hairstyle which she wears on occasion as well. I also got her dangly gold heart shaped lock earings as well. I have tried the anklet thing with her to no avail with a very small skeleton key on a fine chain but it gathers dust in her jewelry box. To my knowledge she has never been asked about any of it but I was with her one time and a vendor at a shop in the nearby mall who she had come to know was wearing a similar necklace as my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder the last time we popped in to where she worked to say hello. They were chatting and I was standing quietly but attentively with her making eye contact with the woman when she remarked upon how much she liked my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder's necklace and wanted to know where she got it. My Wife/Mistress/Keyholder remarked that she had no idea where it came from and that it was a gift from me to which the woman who is probably in her late 20s early 30s remarked with a big smile and a stare at me while addressing my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder how lucky she was to have a husband like me who has such good taste in jewelry and is so well trained to buy nice things for her. She remarked that the man she just recently married purchased hers for her recently and that she likes to call it "the key to his heart". Now, this woman gives off a very self-confident aura and she is a managerial, in control type from what I have picked up from several years of interaction with her...there seemed to be very intense chemistry and knowing smiles and chuckles between she and my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder during this very brief segment of the conversation. I laughed along and said something along the lines of "Yeah, she has me very well trained; she is the brains and I am just her arm dressing. Not only do I buy her nice jewelry and clothes but I cook, clean and do the dishes too." Her remark to my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder was something along the lines of, "He's a keeper, don't let him go." and my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder quipped back, "Oh I know, and besides, he could not go anywhere even if he wanted to because I have him right where I want him."...needless to say my knees were melting and my stomach was fluttering with butterflies and yes this triggered my leakage response. 90% sure she knew where we were coming from and that wherever her husband was the it was very likely that he too is sporting a chastity device. I love it when my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder sports her jewelry...another hot reminder for me of who wears the pants.

    allaboutHer
     
  18. Cecilia B
    Offline

    Cecilia B Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jun 2, 2015
    Messages:
    197
    Likes Received:
    465
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Female
    Local Time:
    10:26 AM
    I wear mine around my neck when bf is under discipline or chastity. I've had 2 women ask me directily ' You keep him locked up, too?'. I made 2 new friends like that.
     
  19. PinkFreud
    Offline

    PinkFreud Active Member

    Joined:
    Jun 7, 2012
    Messages:
    81
    Likes Received:
    40
    Trophy Points:
    28
    Local Time:
    2:26 PM
    That's really cool.
     
    Willywonka likes this.
  20. Chastity Newbie
    Offline

    Joined:
    Aug 11, 2016
    Messages:
    26
    Likes Received:
    39
    Trophy Points:
    13
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    9:26 AM
    Who really cares if they know? I've been locked up for 30 days by my wife now and it has changed our relationship so much for the better! I'm to the point where I just tell my wife if somebody ask, tell them the truth
     
    Unchaste in Joburg likes this.
  21. CZSteve
    Offline

    CZSteve Caged Submissive to my Beautiful Wife/KH n2toys

    Joined:
    Mar 1, 2014
    Messages:
    245
    Likes Received:
    365
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Arlington, TX
    Local Time:
    9:26 AM
    We're just over a couple weeks into this.
    Went out on the 31st last month for my Birthday and bought my Wife a silver necklace along w/ a Queen's crown and heart lock/key charm to go along with the key to be worn on the necklace - she picked out a length the was perfect to fall right at the top of her cleavage as shown in my avatar :)

    While choosing chains She briefly took out the lock key to see how it looked on the chain w/ the charms - pretty sure the girl helping us noticed; I was wondering if she had any clue as to the intent.

    Last week she texted me that she had divulged to another girl at work that she has me locked, they both occasional talk about some kinky stuff now and again. I assumed she had seen my The Key on my Wife's necklace; what really happened was she heard some jingly noise from a different cage that had arrived at her office and asked what was in the box... my Wife mentioned she just recently locked me up and also showed off Her necklace. The other lady mentioned that her husband also loves to be locked up...

    I have ZERO interest in involving any others in our relationship but do get a bit of a kick of my Wife talking to close friends that enjoy the same type of stuff - leaving a sales girl wondering about some strangers in her shop is also a bit exciting...
     
    spider203, SubBoy20_14 and Jblocked like this.
  22. DeesHubby
    Offline

    DeesHubby Active Member

    Joined:
    Jan 3, 2011
    Messages:
    141
    Likes Received:
    95
    Trophy Points:
    38
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    8:26 AM
    My wife has worn hers around her neck most of the time since we started chastity 15 years ago. It is just the standard small round headed key that come with a lot of locks. A couple years back, we were at out State Fair when she saw a couple walk past. My wife said that she thought the female had a key around her neck. A bit later, we passed them again and I saw the female look at my wife and reached up and rubbed the key around her neck, as if to she my wife her key. Later, we were standing listening to band when the couple walked up and the female approached my wife and told her, "nice key". My wife smiled and said "I see we have the same necklace on" and smiled. Knowing what each meant, they started chatting while the other husband and I stood off ot the side quietly waiting.
     
  23. pokekey
    Offline

    pokekey Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 21, 2015
    Messages:
    169
    Likes Received:
    104
    Trophy Points:
    53
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    United States, upper left part
    Local Time:
    7:26 AM
    M has been wearing the key to my Lori for two weeks. Lori did a nice job of making a beautiful setting for the key. It looks like a nice pendant and not too much like a key. No questions about it yet.

    IMG_8638.JPG
     
    Newlover, spider203 and Joroincharge like this.
  24. Giles Webster-Griffiths
    Offline

    Giles Webster-Griffiths Active Member

    Joined:
    May 25, 2016
    Messages:
    25
    Likes Received:
    148
    Trophy Points:
    28
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    12:26 AM
    My owner Beverly Joy always wears her anklet and necklace as she says it makes her world the reality she lives in daily, there have been a few times others have asked her about her ankle chain with a key on it and she glows with pride when they do. She has taken my life into her control and she loves it that I have 'come out' so to speak and have no fear of anyone knowing I am her chastity cuckold.
     
    Willywonka and frankie teardrop like this.
  25. TitaniumChastiTi
    Offline

    TitaniumChastiTi Custom Bespoke Manufacturer

    Joined:
    Dec 1, 2015
    Messages:
    856
    Likes Received:
    374
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    3:26 PM
    This is how Ms S wears her key, she has been questioned many times by her work colleagues and she constantly leaves them wondering, they are so so desperate to know, to my knowledge none do http://www.titaniumchastiti.com/keyholders