Hi, Does anyone know of somewhere my key holder can get training or 121 advice? We have been practicing chastity for a long time on and off. She has also spanked me in the past. We have posted question here in the forums before and the advice has been helpful. We both want to take things to the next level with 24/7 wear and punishments for poor performance. The difficulty is she struggles with feelings of guilt and also struggles with keeping control of me. I guess really what we are looking for is a mentor. All the best Dannny
One to one. As in help from one person for one person, not just a book or an email. The problem is everyone is different. Nobody has trained my Wife, she has picked up stuff from Tumblr, various books and so in, but she has rejected much more than she has accepted. She is becoming an amazing Mistress keyholder.
yes, jasmic is right cos you migt get somebody that's ever so strict and tell your Mistress to do horrible things to you. cos some of the things i seen on here am really really dreadful things.
Thanks for the replies. Any ideas where I can get help for her? Recommendations of sites or books would be appreciated. Maybe we could start by building a FLR.
Happy to chat and have written a few books, one for ladies getting into this world. Let me know if she would like to chat.
I used a BDSM checklist. There is a FD site called CollarNCuffs but this kind of checklist is probably available online. My s is not allowed to use Web teases. But I do This is helpful to start your wife off until she gets into her own rhythm. That is my .02
Sorry it’s been a long time since I replied to the helpful feedback on this thread. My wife and I have been playing chastity on and off since I posted the original message. We manage to get started for a few weeks, then something comes along and it falls away. I think the problem is still my wife struggles with ideas and continued control. She went through a phase of giving me punishments (e.g. paddling) which went well, the difficulty was her being harsh enough to make it a true punishment. Sometimes it ended up that I would be naughty to get the punishment. This then would cause the end of the chastity for a few weeks as she got annoyed that the punishments were not working. She has tried to read up but much of the stuff on the web seems to be written by men and is either farfetched fantasy or too advanced and puts her off. We have tried a number of things based on what I have read and she is very keen to keep going, however from myside though it feels like I am toping form the bottom. Any recommendations on books I could get her? She could almost do with a schedule to follow, any ideas where there might be something similar?