My wife reminded me tonight off the cuff that she prefers girls after reading an article that said women who have sex with women orgasm more. Basically said most women do not orgasm from PIV sex. So my wife said that is why she prefers sex with women. No PIV and lots of kissing, fondling and oral. Makes it easy to deny me. No semen or penises to deal with. If she did not love me, I would not have any orgasms. My fantasy is exactly like what we are doing. It is not a D/s thing. More of a don't need a penis to enjoy sex thing. That made me curious if anyone has a keyholder who is more or wholly into sex with girls. Perhaps would not care if you penis fell off? My chastity fantasy is either be denied by both my wife and her girlfriend again, or by one or more lesbians who find a penis unattractive and useless. Sorry but no way to correct title
Sorry for the typos and other mistakes. I was using my iPad and apparently it is not very compatible in edit mode. I had deleted a portion by error. Basically I was trying to say that my version of chastity is not D/s per se even though there are a few elements of it which cannot be avoided in Chastity. I think that even those in a D/s or FLR with a loved one are not locked away due to a disinterest in their penises. I am trying to find out if this is the case with anyone else. I am curious how it would be if my wife wanted intercourse and a lot of sex. I would think that would make long term orgasm denial more difficult than it is for me. Maybe not because I never get a chance at all for PIV and sometimes I really want it.
My wife is not into girls but she does not enjoy PIV. She says she can't orgasm with PIV. I think this makes me wearing the cage much easier for her as she doesn't need PIV. She doesn't get off by oral either although she likes it and it brings her close to orgasm. A vibrator is needed to get her to orgasm or manual stimulation with my hand. It takes a lot to get her off but she does get off every time.
The erotica you read always has the woman having PIV orgasm, and usually simultaneously with the man's orgasm. This is pure fantasy. If you have intercourse with a woman and she has an orgasm while you give her PIV, odds are she is faking it. Not always but the odds are not in your favor. She fakes it to please you. No wonder that after you marry her she suddenly doesn't want to have sex anymore.