Keeping him nude

Hmm. . . There's a related fetish known as "CFNM" (clothed female, naked male) you might want to look into. Participants actually throw parties, where the guys have to be completely nude, and wait on the (fully clothed) women. Depending on the group, the atmosphere ranges from formal tea party to . . . more risqué, with one rule in common - the women have to stay fully clothed, and the guys have to do what they say.

Might be a way for you to indulge, with worrying about friends/family crashing the fun.

 

We have a similar arrangement to yours, except that when we are at home nudity is the norm. When we are out we wear as little as possible. I can see why you are cementing the divide, but we were nudists long before finding chastity, and it works for us. We do have the advantage of a better climate, and nudity seems more acceptable as a lifestyle to many people here anyway.

I agree with your points 2 to 4, with the slight difference that I like instant access to be a two way street!

When we started caged chastity the random caller issue was way up there on the decision list. What we decided, and keep to, is as you put it "sod it". It's our house, our rules. We live in the sticks, so don't get a stream of cold callers trying to sell double glazing, allegedly cheaper broadband, dodgy housewares, etc. Our friends know about our lifestyle, and accept it, albeit some think we are as mad as a box of frogs. Those who objected seem to have done a runner, as far as we are concerned that's their problem, not ours. We have discovered who likes us for what we are rather than what we have, and I much prefer to have fewer but more open minded friends.

We don't keep Ian locked all the time, so visitors may find naked people or naked people plus extras. As I say to first time viewers, is a cage any different from a piercing? To me it is an alternative form of body jewellery (without the ouch factor when fitted) and should be no big issue. We have found that after a while our visitors just take it for granted.

So should all your visitors know the score? That has to be your decision. It's probably as well to keep a dressing gown available for when the vicar or similar calls, but otherwise why not?

Love and feliz navidad
Jane
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Never been to CFNM, though often been to parties where it's been SCON... some clothed, others not! It does sound an interesting way of spending time with friends, I'll make some overtures and see if it's a goer for NYE

Jane
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Like the body jewellery idea. But jack will remain locked at all times.

One day we may hit that stage. I use the example of piercings when I am explaining to friends why we put Ian in his cage. A lot of them do have intimate body jewellery, once they have made that mental connection they tend to lose the "hang up" about a cage.

Jane
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Have an overcoat or whatever by the front door. If the bell goes he puts it on before you answer and stays that way if the visitor's vanilla.

 

Good refinement would be to have his chastity device incorporate a plastic or wire numbered seal which has to be cut off if the chastity device is removed.

So if he's seen wearing that and the same number's showing a few weeks/months later (maybe another party) everyone can know what he's not been having since last time.

 

We use plastic seals when Ian is away, largely so he doesn't go bleep through metal detectors. However we don't aim to set world records for lock up time so unless we used sequential numbers it wouldn't help much. Just because he is sometimes allowed to hang loose doesn't mean he is getting any!

Jane
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That is interesting. We have a similar situation. On the weekends mainly my KH likes the have me around full fem, makeup wig dressed. We live in a rural area so we rarely have unannounced guests but it does happen. The other day one of the neighbors popped over and I really had no time to scamper off to another room. I just kind of sat there and said nothing. The neighbor said nothing to me finished her quick visit and left. A few days later she and my KH met at the mailbox and she said to my KH "I had no idea your husbands sister was in for a visit, a bit shy is she?". My KH choked back her laughter and said "she drops in unexpectedly now and then".

 

Do tell. How was it scary? My wife is considering having me castrated as the final step in my feminization.

 

Never seen one myself except on a pic.
IMO there are so many things can be done to them while still attached they can be far more use as they are.
But certainly can be a good idea to have an 'option' on them so it can happen at any time in the future with or without notice. Various ways of arranging this.
Can also cement the existing set-up as he'll not even want to think about changing his mind!

 

Since I'm permanently impotent due to medication, testicles are a useless impediment to my wife's desire to transform me into a woman. I'd much prefer to be smooth down there.

 

We have children and thus not able to be CFNM during daily life; however, a couple months ago Goddess and I had a private vacation get away to Las Vegas - rule was I was to remain naked when in our suite an often bound to the bed or a chair, especially for play sessions and obviously serviced my Wife quite often.

@n2toys would bind me to the bed or a chair while she got ready for when we were going out - very erotic and surreal being bound naked to a chair sitting in front of Her while She did Her makeup - can't wait to have more get aways for just the two of us.

 

I'm not there now either. My subbie still has his balls and I'm not changing this now, even though I could. For me things at present are just fine and as they say: if it ain't broke don't fix it.

 

That's it. Both of you to know you could if you wanted have them away. But you both (for different reasons) want them where they are. So neither you nor he will want to change anything and he's yours (including his sex life if any) if you want for life.

 

As a sissy i‘m normally fem dressed at home,but sometimes Goddess orderd to stay naked in Heels and being collared.

 

I will typically have my Liza walking around in sexy lingerie when home.
She has become comfortable with it now .
But I do have her stay nude somtimes and I do notice a change in her
She will become much more quiet and submissive especially if she's plugged
I will usually comment on her much more feminine behavior and feminine demeanor
And gives me a chance to inspect her shaving and body
She has been really working hard on reshaping her body
Her hips and waist have become much more feminine

 

I am much more docile when plugged. Were all men required to have their bottoms so stuffed there would be more harmony on the planet.

 

I prefer Ian to be nude at home. I also prefer me to be nude at home. Janet also prefers to be nude at home.

There is a slight problem with wearing lingerie, sexy or otherwise, which is that none of us possess any! Ian and I haven't for years, Janet binned all hers the day she moved in.

Jane
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