My wife and I have been trying the chastity lifestyle for about a year now and we have made several attempts at a female led relationship and it goes great for a while but it usually ends up falling apart. I honestly love the power and control that she has over me. It really turns me on and I know I want the lifestyle but I'm struggling with giving up all control. It's not any one thing in particular that I get hung up on but when I want something and she says no it can sometimes lead to an argument...or a fight (nothing physical of course). It's more of a subconscious thing. I don't mean to argue, in hindsight I'd give up these things no problem. I know I have a horrible communication problem. I don't speak my mind until it's too late and we are currently working through that but once I put up a fight she loses hope in the flr and doesn't know what to think. She is afraid to tell me what she wants because she thinks it will turn into another argument. Do any of you guys/gals have any experience with this? How do you break that boundary and go all in to an FLR? Would it help if there were rules set ahead of time? What would you typically do if your sub refused a decision that you had made? How do you break that behavior, maintain each other's happiness, and give in to a female led relationship? Thanks in advance! I'm sure my wife will weigh in with a comment as well.