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    I found a kinky friend. She’s a domme I met online and have been chatting with for a few nights now. It got rather intense and we decided to take a step back, but I’m glad we were able to discuss it like humans and continue develop a friendship. I finally have someone to talk to about kink and power exchange!
     
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    Sounds exciting for you. Hope it continues to work out and please share as you progress, if you think it is appropriate. Good luck and enjoy,
     
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    Good luck and I hope it goes great!
     
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    Thanks all! She’s encouraging me to reach out to others and engage with the community, and recommending some great nonfiction about submissions and power exchange. If anyone else has any suggestions, I’d love to hear them. This is really quite fun...
     
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    Hey y’all,

    Wondering if anyone has an advice. I’ve met two dommes online now, one of whom is local and another who is not. I get along really, really well with the not-local domme (A), but she already has a sub and is looking for a kinky friendship, perhaps with some play with her other sub. She is very commanding and intelligent. Someone I could see myself submitting to one day.

    Domme B is local, she’s a sub who grew tired of trying to find a Dom and decided to try and become the Dom she doesn’t think is out there. I love that attitude, but frankly she seems unsure of herself, or perhaps the chemistry just isn’t there. All in all, I’m finding it less interesting to converse with her.

    I guess I’m looking for some advice, but honestly just trying to write out how I feel about this. My gut instinct is that Domme B won’t work out, but I’m going to give it a few more days/a week and see if we can’t find a way to click. I’m wondering if it would be better to share my concerns with her, or simply let things develop.

    Overall, I’m learning a ton in my conversations with both of them. Feel very lucky and excited to see where things go.
     
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    B seems the logical choice. A isn't interested and is trying to tell you that gently. B is finding her feet as a domme after having been sub. That must be challenging. What better way to do it than with someone who's trying to develop his submissive tendencies?

    Learn together. Support each other. Talk it all through.

    Good luck
     
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    B sounds like the logical choice you both could learn together
     
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    B brings many advantages, IMHO. For both of you to "feel your way", what relationship that involves might be really good since both of you will come from inexperience and be learning together. It all depends on how well you two can communicate. If both of you can be honest, I am sure it will work out well.
     
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