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    #27 Ellen58, Dec 4, 2013
    Yes Wendy I agree, but finding an older submissive might not be that easy....in the meantime I'm just taking it all in...
     
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    #28 CorsetJane, Dec 4, 2013
    I wish you good hunting and good luck Ellen! Finding yourself and what honestly makes you tick is a great moment and not one that we all come to at the earliest stages of life... i for one took a few decades to realise my true position and can honestly say i've not looked back!! Life begins again after 50! Welcome to the club! :)
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    hcin2016 Loving losing control in chastity

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    #29 hcin2016, Dec 4, 2013
    Hmmm, first welcome. And second I am also very new, but interested in chastity. And what I have found that locking myself is OK, but I think what is really exciting is losing control over my chastity. Losing it to someone or something - like one of the keyholder services. Just curious, what about being in control is exciting to you if I could ask.
     
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    #30 Ellen58, Dec 4, 2013
    You are scared?.....lol got yourself locked and now what? I can't help you with all that, but I read your post. I just like the control. I think my response will depend on the sub I'm dealing with. I'm chatting with a man right now who has submissive tendencies but he is acting all bravado right now. I know he really wants to be under my or some woman's thumb. I enjoy knowing what he wants and even tho he disagrees with me and is argumentative he will continually come back for more. He wants to be topped, probably has all his life. It will be interesting to see how it all plays out.
     
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    #31 xcitedsisssy, Dec 4, 2013
    Ellen58 do be careful out there in cyber world for all may not be who they represent themselves as.
     
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    #32 Ellen58, Dec 4, 2013
    yes true...but i think thats probably true of most of the internet...lol
     
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    #33 hcin2016, Dec 4, 2013
    I agree with xcitedsissy. I have received several strange messages after joining another fetish site. But just as with other things, don't give out any personal identity info over the internet.
     
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    #34 Wendygirl, Dec 4, 2013
    So long as you don't give your address phone or email address you should be ok
    Physically separate so you cant get nasty things and ddirect violence .
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    #35 cbtwannabe, Dec 7, 2013
    Does it necessarily have to be an older submissive?

    A man that is a gentleman outside of the prescribed confines of the house, opening doors for his lady, hand in the small of her back as he leans in to tell her something, always ready with a kiss, always listening to his queen... yet inside the door of the house he is naked on his hands and knees, worshiping his queen.
     
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    #36 Giles_English, Dec 7, 2013
    How might it have changed things? I am curious....
     
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    #37 MistressL, Dec 7, 2013
    Welcome and have fun.
     
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    #38 Ellen58, Dec 8, 2013
    @Giles_English...I think things could have been different at a time in my marriage when things changed with my husbands career change. I wish I could have stepped up and took over in a female led relationship. I think it would have provided some discipline in him and brightened up the sex life. He would have been held accountable more and made to help me out more in the home. Might have changed everything.
     
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    #39 Ellen58, Dec 8, 2013
    Thank you so much MistressL, so far am having fun...love to chat sometime...Ellen
     
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    #40 allaboutHer, Dec 8, 2013
    Hello and Welcome Ms. Ellen.
    It is so refreshing to see 50+ men and women enjoying the carnal pleasures of life. As I am nearing the end of my 40s it gives me hope that my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder and I are not alone out there and that we don't need to start "acting our age". Maybe things will sizzle as we enter our 50s and our children we had late in life reach college age! I can hope! I am sure there are plenty of men in their late 40s and in their 50s that have always pined for a strong, intelligent woman. Perhaps you should broaden your search a wee bit to men just under 50? You may find it fun to control a younger man. Submissive men do tend to have the "older woman" attraction I think. I have dated several older women in my life and loved it, sadly to my knowledge they were generally very vanilla. Have fun and good luck in your search. I am sure it will take time to weed through the burping and farting louts to find a man who is a MAN and proud of it but not so much that he cannot shed his inhibitions and societal expectations, drop to his knees for you, surrender his sexuality and worship the feet that carried you into his life. Take care.

    allaboutHer
     
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    #41 Giles_English, Dec 8, 2013
    Conversely, I think discovering chastity devices as a young man might have trapped me in relationships that I am glad I escaped.
     
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    #42 Ellen58, Dec 8, 2013
    I think you can get caught up in bad relationships whether vanilla or kink...such is life.
     
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    #43 Ellen58, Dec 8, 2013
    Thank you so much for your beautiful letter. Yes I hope you and your wife can keep it together until you become emptynesters because there will be more time to regroup and fall in love again. I hope I find what I'm looking for too, but you inspire me that its not hopeless...Ellen
     
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    #44 tiemeupalso, Dec 8, 2013
    why cant I find a lady like you in Texas?damn
     
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    #45 Ellen58, Dec 8, 2013
    Maybe living in the bible belt has something to do with it...lol.
     
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    #46 Giles_English, Dec 8, 2013
    Yes but kink is often an erotic version of something that would otherwise be dysfunctional.
     
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