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    #1 Ellen58, Nov 24, 2013
    I'm a 58 yr.old woman who has been exploring various alternative lifestyles and kink. Raised conservatively, and was in a vanilla marriage that ended in divorce after 22 years. Kids are grown. Like the concept of male chasity, not so much into the BDSM of it tho. Love to look at cages. How come I didn't know about this stuff when I was younger???...It might have changed my marriage. Curious about it all, don't want to be considered a lurker.
     
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    #2 PUP, Nov 24, 2013
    Let me be the first to welcome you to The Mansion Ellen, I'm sure you will find it very friendly and informative :)
     
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    #3 Strict Sir, Nov 24, 2013
    Welcome to the Mansion, Ellen. This is a nice friendly place and there's lots and lots of info about the chastity lifestyle. Enjoy!
     
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    #4 Mistress Jules, Nov 24, 2013
    Welcome Ellen, I know exactly what you mean when you are asking why you didn't know about this stuff. I am so cross at missing out all these years. I hope you enjoy your time here, people are really friendly and helpful.
     
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    #5 Mistress B, Nov 24, 2013
    Welcome @Ellen58 Although chastity does not necessarily lead to BDSM, it is astonishing how frequently the two seem to grow together. Have fun.
     
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    #6 Ellen58, Nov 24, 2013
    Thank you all...your very welcoming....
     
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    #7 Mascara^Snake, Nov 24, 2013
    Hello and welcome Ellen.
    Don't worry about the BDSM contingent, you can be just as vanilla as you like.
    :)
     
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    #8 spider202, Nov 24, 2013
    Hello and welcome Ellen58 and you are right about finding out about male chastity, for I think they would be a lot less separations and divorces if male chastity was more main street rather than seen as a kink (which it is not).
    So again welcome to the site...... Spider202
     
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    #9 CorsetJane, Nov 24, 2013
    Very welcome Ellen58! Always nice to see someone new!
    i can relate to the "why didnt i know about this?" statement.... although i am on the other side of the fence!! hehe
    cj :)
     
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    #10 Rex1951, Nov 24, 2013
    Welcome Ellen58. I am interested in male chastity myself and am looking for someone to keep me under control. I too am after a long uneventful marriage and now exploring other things. Good to chat sometime.
    Gordon
     
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    #11 Ellen58, Nov 24, 2013
    Hi Gordon, How are you?
     
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    #12 lockit, Nov 24, 2013
    I knew nothing about it until just over 4 years ago.
    There is nothing I can compare to that feeling.
     
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    #13 Ellen58, Nov 24, 2013
    yes, I'm seeing that...
     
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    #14 Rex1951, Nov 25, 2013
    Hi Ellen58,
    Thanks for getting back to me; I've just noticed the fact that you did. It seems we have both landed on this site at the same time having followed a similar life course. It would be good to chat outwith this public forum.
    Gordon
     
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    #15 Ellen58, Nov 25, 2013
    Yes I would enjoy that...
     
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    #16 paulasissygurl, Nov 25, 2013
    Another welcome giggles :rolleyes:
     
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    #17 Wendygirl, Nov 25, 2013
    As the others have said welcome and enjoy . Ask the questions , may be sit down to read the replies .lol
    Love your avatar at least you won't be using boy bits ones !
    Xx wendy
     
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    #18 Ellen58, Nov 25, 2013
    Thanks Wendy, yeah this is all pretty new to me but I'm interested so I have to find out about it. Since I'm older and divorced and my kids are pretty much grown I don't have to work it into family life. Everyone has been very nice.
     
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    #19 Ellen58, Nov 25, 2013
    thanks...lol
     
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    #20 Joroincharge, Nov 25, 2013
    Enjoy it here. And may you find what you want....good hunting....
     
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    #21 Ellen58, Nov 25, 2013
    thanks....
     
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    #22 cbtwannabe, Dec 3, 2013
    Salutations Ms. Ellen,

    I was wondering what is your draw, or what you think (or have) enjoy the most in being a key holder, or how you think it could/would have changed things?
     
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    #23 Ellen58, Dec 3, 2013
    To cbtwannabe...I think I like the control being a keyholder gives. I've been in two serious relationships in my life, one married one after I divorced. Both times in retrospect I felt controlled in the relationship, and honestly I didn't like it. I see myself more in a female led relationship and one that can be lived in a vanilla world at least privately. It took me a hell of a long time to figure this out tho...lol.
     
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    #24 Joroincharge, Dec 3, 2013
    Sometimes it takes a while, or a particular trigger, to make pne understand one's self. But once you've figured it out....yay!
     
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    #25 Wendygirl, Dec 3, 2013
    It is a very big thing finding out what you want to be and getting to the position where you can explore the real you.
    Now you need to work on the real thing.

    The anticipation of the first meeting hopefully they do turn up.
    Having the first real sub kneeling before you all yours to play with. .......
    Cyber can be interesting but having a real play thing omg
    Xx wendy
     
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